Wednesday, November 01, 2006

亲爱的部落族群!

谢谢你们的留言。虽然文字能缩短人与人的距离,但是也会让人与人之间产生更多的摩擦。We always read between the lines.

很多事情说明白了才恍然大悟!听众用“非常无聊及毫无教育意义”来形容我的新节目,对我来说,当然难过。但是,当她/他举例说明所谓的有趣及有教育意义的是粉樱所制作的节目时,我终于明白了。

很多事情你不说,我真的不知道我的节目有那么无聊呢。所以部落格的存在是相互沟通,了解,分享,分担。

就算是跟你十多年的另一半也未必了解你,更何况是我和你。

我妈说,不喜欢我在空中说我的名字很倒霉。(“永”远倒“霉”〕她不说,我真的不知道她在意着。我从未怪她取这个名字,但是无意间已经对她造成了伤害。我一直觉得母亲在取这个名字时似乎预知我未来会遇到一些很不如意的事而我都会一一走过来。你知道吗?好多诗人都写过关于“咏梅”的诗。

“若无一番寒彻骨,怎得梅花扑鼻香。”在风雪当中,它是唯一能绽放的花朵。

放心写吧。这是自由发言的空间。是我开放的所以无权过问。

星期五到星期天都不在新加坡。想拿长假但现在还是起步期,泓佑是自愿来帮忙的。帮我找了许多经历过精彩人生的朋友上节目,在周末陪我回来录音。我绝对不能自私地让他一个人孤军作战,对他实在不公平。老实说,是他重燃我对广播的热忱。就象当初进来这个圈子的时候那样,对广播有很多憧憬。

虽然是短暂三天的假,但是已经足够了。因为我渴望放假已经很久很久了。做到有些burn out了,再不走我会变得越来越无聊的。

对了,我的好友很快会寄给我她最近到九寨沟拍的照片。她说非常漂亮。所以大家一定要常来作客。这样就不会错过秋意正浓的九寨沟及西藏雪山的照片了。

祝大家周末愉快。

19 comments:

Anonymous said...

Aiyah!YongMei,dun borther abt wat ppl say or tin abt U!It is hard to please everyone just please none,if U please one,one says yes and the other says no,so please dun please anyone,just do ur best as wat U tin is correct!I am always dar to support U!U did very hard to do well,to please all the listeners but yet how...So long as U tried hard,sure lisenters will know!I knew U since U were in 100.3,I see changes in U,especially the ideas in ur programe so dun wori,dos like U will remain but dun like U will sure grow to know U better dan like U!Do ur best!I like the way ,U partner with HongYou,he is very telented wit lots of ideas too!I liked his previous programme only tin he was lost smetime!Thank You YongMei for giving us dis opportunity to hear him again,thankQ.JiaYou

DJ Kevin said...

不爱我的人, 我不爱他

I will not like you if you do not like me

celloman said...

Hi YongMei,

Don't worry your baby is growing fine and I'm sure the listeners will grow to understand what you are trying to provide them with. Guess it takes time for some of the listeners to get use to the change. I appreciate the effort that you have put in to create this fantastic programme.

I believe you must be under tremendous pressure taking over this time slot, which previously was very successful under Billy. Listeners will tend to compare. It takes courage to take over this time slot, I salute you for that.

Please continue to work hard for your listeners.

Thank you for the great effort!

daze said...

甲之熊掌,乙之砒霜。

刚开始教书时遇到两个学生的恶意批评,evaluation里用的字语真的很过分。那时候资深前辈说不要因为那一两个人的negative evaluations而看不到其他四十个positive evaluations。

共勉之…

lc said...

Yongmei

Every 'baby' is unique! Just nurture them with love and care (also my name' lo) & see them grow into a useful 'being' 2 society.

Keep up d good works!

poolfans said...

regarding today 奇男怪女 topic,为什么那位女听众不要跟他的男朋友订婚呢!她已很肯定男友就是她结婚的对象,订婚应该是一个很好主意才是。况且只是订婚而已麻,又不是要马上结婚。咳哟。。。。。。真不了解女人。

我觉得
因为她的男友还处于“单身”的身份, 还有权利做选择。第三者在偶然的时侯出现,感觉对了,便跟他做走在一起。这是缘分!

那位女听众可以做的只是接受这一切。。。自己做错了决定,走错了一步就没得回头了!

她也该从中领悟到人的感情是那么的脆弱。
人在对的时候,对的感觉,适当的地方,结识到一个可以令你心动的人,爱的感觉是很容易产生的。

take it as a lesson learn.. carry on with ur life.

Thats life...

Anonymous said...

hi heidi(yongmei) ,
i use heidi so you'll know how long i supported you , right ?
I like your "learn a language a day" but it is too short . I think you should take out shanghai language because i think it is a dialet also . since we are not allow speark hokkien or teochew so do shanghai .
keep it up with your hard work !!!

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei
Don't be bother with wat others say. I think you are doing a good job. I have been listening to your program and hope that you will continue with wat you are doing. YOU ARE DOING GREAT! All the DJs are working on a 3 hours job whereas you are working on a 4 hours slot.Actually I do worry for you as you have put in so many programs in this slot, I wonder physically can you take it. Tell you a little secret: I switch off my radio at 2.00pm nowadays as the program does not interest me at all.So Kampatei! I will always support you!

Anonymous said...

Hi Yongmei

Just want to drop a note to say u have done a great job in yr new slots. Believe in yourslef and Jia You

cheers
pauline aka Lijun

maymay said...

Hello, Yong Mei,

I quite like your new programmes, can feel your passion & the effort that you've put in. I also like your new partner, HongYou. However, I feel that sometimes you like to laugh a lot, pls don't take it too personal. It's just that if the topic is serious then too much laughter may just turn off our focus. I do like to hear you being happy & bubbly on air, but the mood should be relevant to the topic. I will continue to support your programmes, keep up the good work. I also support Biyu & Kevin. Ganbatte.

Anonymous said...

嗨!咏梅小妹

你的名字还OK啦!

何必在乎听众的评语。有建设性的才听,攻击的话就当它是在放屁。不要太在意,我们知道你已经尽力了。

加油!

Eileen

eddie said...

halo yong mei

your name not bad mah..

"yong mei" stand for "FOREVER BEAUTIFUL" u think this way,u will b happy right?? hehe

Anonymous said...

Hi!FOREVER BEAUTIFUL!dat's a gd name indeed!So mst love ur name as it was given by ur parents,they wanted u to be the prettiest of all .....
Really hope HONGyOU can stay a bit longer in ur programme,I really like his voices,very sexy.....Haha!He laughed a lot in the show too.
Both of U do well,jia you

小胖 said...

Reciting a poem of a Plum~ :P

Anonymous said...

喜 欢 你 的 节 目 ,接 近 和 针 对 年 青 人 所 面 对 的 问 题 。
粉 樱 的 节 目 越 来 越 安 娣 了, 不 太 适 合 没 有 孩 子 的 年 青 人 听。

Anonymous said...

我还是最爱听你的节目!

shee said...

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@range said...

嗨,咏梅~
"972",就是属于怀旧型的电台、属于年长者首选的电台。这就是我对972的感觉。。。
但,由于我现在的工作环境,我在办公室唯一的娱乐就只有听972。其实,这电台是我第一天来上班就调好的~我也不能选择。。。
但,我听这电台已有几个月的时间也慢慢觉得这个电台很温馨。感觉是个大家庭的感觉,每个972的DJ似乎都有互动。这开始让我发现,我之前的想法是错的~
其实,你的节目也很好啊~
让我们能在衣着上更凸现自己的优点。
让在爱情世界里遇到困难的人能听到更多意见,让他们更容易解决困难~
所以,在你的节目中能帮到很多人啊。。。你说你的节目会无聊吗???不会了对吗???
而且,在空中你一开始就会,聊一下自己这我很喜欢。。。因为能让我们更了解你的近况啊~

Anonymous said...

when 97.2 was re-shuffling the programmes and re-partnering the deejays, i lost my most beloved/respected aunt on deepavali...she ranked third after my parents in my heart, that told of her weight and importance to us...people say time will heal the wound - i would rather say time will only hide the wound and let us get used to the pain...but i am not used to her absence yet, i cant express openly my grievances and pain cos need to think for my elders...so very much live like a walking corpse then and now...then suddenly i realised that u were not at the afternoon programme anymore when i tuned in trying to seek refuge or comfort in your laughter subconsciously.....the emptiness only grows deeper...everyone of us take everything in this world for granted, our kins, friends, love
ones, work, leisure, and even deejays.....we think they will be there everytime as and when we want to see, feel or listen to them...but we ALL FORGET that life is full of transience!!! we only know how to meticulously picked out faults of others and intentionally placed ourself levels above others...we start to voice sharp and hurting words and comments against others, forgetting the fact that we are all human beings, we all have feelings and thoughts...we exist to learn from each other, we are in no position to criticise when we ourselves do not know the R&R of a trade or game.....due to working schedule, i am not able to tune in to your morning's programme, just a word to your listeners (provided if you would kindly air my shallow point of views) - treasure your blessings to still able to tune in and harbour a more magnanimous heart...xi fu, xi fu!!!