Monday, April 02, 2007

男生女生配 - 下周男主角- KEVIN !


40 years old, sales and marketing manager, strong language abilities like japanese, malay, chinese and english.
If you are interested, pls fax your details to 62505972

120 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi, u never specify what is his hobby or what kind of lady he likes

Daphne said...

Kevin has a prominent wu guan and indeed, he's a dude. I decided to check him out after hearing all the handsome comments on radio. I'm not participating, just curious.
I wish him all the best of luck in finding his Miss Right :)

Anonymous said...

Hi, by the way, how tall is he? Does his job requires him to travel overseas ?

Anonymous said...

If he is so good, he would have been married already...until 40 has not married yet???!!! Sure there is something wrong about him

Anonymous said...

Hi, is Kevin pure Chinese??? cos quite unbelievable he can speak Malay leh..

Anonymous said...

他有点象李伟菘!

Anonymous said...

40 not married is not a sin. So, there must be something wrong for all good and succesful bachelors and spinisters still not married at 40??? Its might just tat he has not meet his Miss Right, or he is too concentrate on his career that he miss his chance. Well, we have to think positive and wish him meet his Miss Right soon. I think he is brave enough to start the ball rolling.. ALL THE BEST, Kevin.

Anonymous said...

I agree with you : )

sally said...

I'm agree that his miss right haven't come, maybe coming soon through this program.

叶咏梅 said...

yah, muz encourage people in 40s to come forward. cos we thought they are all TAKEN!!!

Treat it as a way of knowing more friends.

my colleagues think he looks like guo min zong , the breadtalk manager leh.

叶咏梅 said...

oh yah. he will be coming to my programme tomo at 12 noon. any questions, feel free to leave a comment here or call in at 12 noon tomorrow.

i'll tell you how he looks like in person. MAKEOVER photos are deceiving! haha.

anyway, he sounded nice on phone.

till now still not much response. wonder if it's my problem leh. if you have single friends, recommend to listen tomo leh.

poolfans said...

嗨,咏梅。。
要为四十岁的人士找对象并不是一件容易的事,这些人通常心理上出现了小问题。尤其是男士们,四十岁还没有对象的他们,要不是经历过一段被伤害的恋情,就是本身的个性极端的内向。 把重心放在事业上只是他们的一个借口,其实他们实在逃避。他们需要的是接受心理上的铺导。

或许可以把主角的年龄设定在30岁左右。 期待着本节目可以有很好的效果。加油。。。

snowflake said...

我觉得他勇气可嘉,这类活动需要有人先“挺身而出”,希望旁观者不要对他人身攻击。在摆上他的照片时可以同时提供更多个人资料,如身高,体重,兴趣,甚至是生肖,星座等等。。。一般女生都会在各方面符合了才做决定,毕竟已是成熟男女,不会贸然行事。

不管你年纪又多大,没有人愿意孤单一生。。。祝大家好运!

叶咏梅 said...

Does age really leave such a bad impression? If that's the case, i will not include age and even photo next time. Cos they pluck up their courage to take part in the show and that's not easy. They are not artistes and it's not easy to tell everyone they are single and available and willing to give it a try.

And yet you think he needs to see a counsellor. I think he has passion in life, he travels, cooks, went on skiing trips and trekking. He enjoys his single life, juz that he finds that something is missing in his almost perfect world. A special someone to share his life with. If he has met her in his 30s, he would have been attached by now.

Really dun understand. MC, Ahong, even Hongyou are close to 40s. If you're 40s and single, does that mean that you're doomed for life and should juz stay at home and rot?

What's wrong with them being single and available?

Sometimes i think, we let our own perceptions affect our thought. Things like-->

1) You should get married by 30.
2) You should get a degree in order
to have a future.
3) You should have a child once you
get married.
4) You should get married since you
have been with him for 8 years.

Everyone longs to have a PERFECT life, everything happens juz the way we want them to be. But not all of us are lucky enough to achieve what we intended too.

Yes, we went off the usual track but that doesn't mean we have to lead a miserable life 4ever right?

Juz some of my own thoughts. pardon me if i went off track too.

叶咏梅 said...

Does age really leave such a bad impression? If that's the case, i will not include age and even photo next time. Cos they pluck up their courage to take part in the show and that's not easy. They are not artistes and it's not easy to tell everyone they are single and available and willing to give it a try.

And yet you think he needs to see a counsellor. I think he has passion in life, he travels, cooks, went on skiing trips and trekking. He enjoys his single life, juz that he finds that something is missing in his almost perfect world. A special someone to share his life with. If he has met her in his 30s, he would have been attached by now.

Really dun understand. MC, Ahong, even Hongyou are close to 40s. If you're 40s and single, does that mean that you're doomed for life and should juz stay at home and rot?

What's wrong with them being single and available?

Sometimes i think, we let our own perceptions affect our thought. Things like-->

1) You should get married by 30.
2) You should get a degree in order
to have a future.
3) You should have a child once you
get married.
4) You should get married since you
have been with him for 8 years.

Everyone longs to have a PERFECT life, everything happens juz the way we want them to be. But not all of us are lucky enough to achieve what we intended too.

Yes, we went off the usual track but that doesn't mean we have to lead a miserable life 4ever right?

Juz some of my own thoughts. pardon me if i went off track too.

Anonymous said...

U R advance to do such programe as TCS aso doing the same or similar programe but target on the age of 35 and above!Ppl at this age R usually the one who reali need service like dis,as lots of ppl reali tot they already been taken!
Gd luck to YongMei as well as Kelvin!

Anonymous said...

yah!Notin is mst be like dat or mst be how!Age is not the problem,especially for ppl in the 20century,who cares,so long as ppl who enjoy their single life Y not still single!Any wrong nt???
Kelvin has his courage to put his photos up,but y ppl kept gving 'bad' comments,Y LIKE DAT!!!!!

Anonymous said...

I totally agree with Yong Mei. Why should we affect our thought by our own perception. Age definitely is not a problem. He has enjoy his single life and now he thinks its time for him to settle down. He just want someone to share his joy and happiness, tats all. Why not we just give him our blessing rather than passing bad and unhappy comments.

I have a male friend who got married only at his 50s and got a son. Though his son is still so young, but he is happy and satisfy with his life. He dun need a counsellor!!!

We should encourage and admire Kevin to have the courage to step forward to make the first move. At least he got "guts" and I dun think he is deseparate.

Anonymous said...

come on guys, wats wrong with 40s????dun understand u ppl..not everybody able to find love at 20s or 30s u know.. if u r one of the fortunate ones, good luck lor..otherwise dont despise those in 40s..why should this age group be deprived of seeking love..no logic wat? really cannot "tahan" ppl comment "aiyo 40s not married,sure something wrong somewhere.." pls lah give these ppl a chance to find happiness..nobody ask u to marry him..make frens mah,,wont die rite!!!there are still many single girls out there..i"m sure..kevin quite good-looking leh..too bad i married..ha..

Anonymous said...

how come you don introduce to your good friend biyu? never know "yuan zai tian mian,jin zai yan qian" no need to search so far!!!!!

Anonymous said...

I'm really impressed with his courage. At least he got the "guts" to step out and make friends. I really dun understand y u ppl think that he has problem. C'mon we r living in the 21st century. At the age of 40 single so wat, shd they be condemned??? They can also enjoy their life to the fullest like others rite?? So pls listener of 972, wish them the very best and don't criticise anymore. And to u, Renee, u have my fullest support. "Jiayou"

Anonymous said...

Hi,lets make it short and not to take up space.I am only 26 but i am lucky i am married already.If i am kelvin at age 40, i really would not have the guts to come out and make friends.Come on Gals out there,make friends.Its that simple,its not a forced marriage.Don't read too much into this program.Good luck kelvin,u have the support of all guys here.DJ of 97.2Fm,dun get too bothered by all those comments.Concentrate on what this program needs.

Anonymous said...

hi, i am lucy. there is a scar on top of his right eye. people say that this type of man like sex very much.

Anonymous said...

He should had make an effort to attend the interview with DJ Yong Mei.
If I'm to be his girlfriend, I will be quite disappointed that he could not even made it for our very first date

Anonymous said...

are u a vigin?

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei, will Kevin mind lady older than him? Maybe by 5 yrs?

Anonymous said...

does he mind a divorcee and with children??

GaRFieLD said...

Gracious god!
Some of the comments posted here are atrocious!
Pleaseeee... many get married at early age of 20s or 30s but still divorced & remarried again.. so what's so big deal of not getting attached at the age of 40!
Questions like "are u a virgin!"
Isn't it a little too crude?
OMG. Can't u'll jus get togather as friends first before asking such personal questions?

Am married to a man I've known since 15 yrs old, dated at 21, married at 28, have our 1st bb (now 4 months) when am 33. From the converstaion he had with YongMei jus now, I tik Kevin's a nice guy. I dun mind making friends with him. Have even referred YongMei's blog to my galfrd who's sweet, single & available...
Kevin, Good Luck & 3 cheers to your courage!

阿三哥 said...

这照片是什麽时候拍的?
十年前? 还是很久很久以前?

阿三哥 said...

看你的照片还不赖。三哥有个八妹还在深闺未嫁,介绍给你如何?三哥我姓朱。

阿三哥 said...

我八妹也喜欢吃炒饭, 你们一定很enjoy吃炒饭。

chris said...

Does he mind his girlfriend order than him?

Tong An said...

I think we should praise Kevin for his courage in coming forward to find that special someone in his life. Life is really too short for us to live by societal beliefs/norms inposed on us from our parents or grandparents. Like what Yong Mei had mentioned earlier on, we should not blindly succumb to beliefs that we should be married by 30, have kids by a certain age, etc...

By the way, I am 73 and got married only when I was 39. Can you imagine what people of my parents' generation or friends said when I married at such an 'old' age during those days?

We choose the way we want to live our lives. As long as we are happy, no one has the right to dictate how we should live our lives...

Good luck, Kevin and thanks to Yong Mei for hosting such a wonderful programme to help singles find their soulmates!

Anonymous said...

Hi Kevin,I admire your courage and hope you are sincere in your soul mate search.All the best.

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei

On behalf of some of those ladies' who's in the late 30s & 40s, he have to let them know whether he is prepare to have a family with children or not. coz for some women, the factory production may be closed.
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Anonymous said...

Hi, Yong Mei

This programme is very interesting but was disappointed on some of the comments posted! It was terrible! What's wrong being single in their 40s?

Kevin, pray to our Father that he will grant you a good wife.

Vivienne said...

Hi, I sent you an email and it was bounced. Not sure if you receive! -Vivienne

Christine said...

Hi Yong Mei,

I think your email box has gone burst! I am not able to send my particulars to you.

Anonymous said...

Hi..Does he mind giving us his email add...eg:hotmail add??...

Elinor said...

Hi Yongmei

Think either your email is jammed with emails or your office address auto filter out email from yahoo, hotmail or gmail.

Anonymous said...

Hi, I totally agree with Yong Mei's & some others' positive views. I can feel yr enrage by some senseless comments. Though I'm also ar that age group but still not thinking of getting hitched, I do admire people like Kevin who have an open mind & courage to open himself up in the air. 他很大方的畅谈所有的问题,好无保留,很难得.I wish him all the best in his pursuit of friendship & hopefully matrimony.
Kevin has already answered on the phone interview as to why he's still single, 1 reason being he used to hv a girlfried but she has died in an accident & he spent a few years to heal and some years working overseas. So we must know his circumstances, don't speculate something wrong with him.
For men, 40 is not too old, unlike women, we're having more difficulty to find a unmarried man. The good ones will be taken up in their 20s or 30s.
I know for some women, is not that they don't want to fall in love and get married, sometimes the available man just don't appear infront of u. The matured with good career ones who are usually in the 30s & likely unmarriable (ie.attached, married or not divorced yet). Years slipped by in a blink before we realise we've miss the boat (age) for finding life-time companion.
If one will get to marry after 40s, we will most likely be looking for companionship than anything else. Making babies will be difficult for women abv 35 (who has not given birth b4). It's sad but who to blame...唉...
Men usually like to find younger women so they can bear off-spring for them. So if a woman can find a man who don't need her to bear children it will be less pressure for them and marraige for companionship will be blissful.
;)

poolfans said...

Sorry for my last post. I am not trying to get offensive... Just Mis-interprete wad i trying to bring out...

u mentioned that the respond not that good.. And for my last post, i am trying to say it might got to do with, to find someone near 40s might not be easy.. Those who is near 40s and still single they need to overcome their hidden fear first in order to come out and take part on the show.. ( i not referring to kevin)

Be it that they had a bad past relationship (sad ending) or they are too devoted to their work or personal interest (no time for RS)
In fact i feel Kevin has got the courage to come forward to this show, and this is wad it matter most. (i for one will never have the courage to do so)


not able to express myself has always been my weak point.
hope i clear up the mis understanding...

Anonymous said...

Hi there,
this afternoon I've heard he travel alot because of the work that requires but then he stay at that countrys at least 2yrs onwards,the longest stay is 4yrs.My question is that,do you found any women you like cos you can speak all sort of language.

Regards
Mr Lee

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei
I agree with your analysis. Generally, people tend to map out their perceptions well before they get to know a person. It takes time, and no one person is perfect. Single at 40 - he must have his own reasons. Ought to be fair to him. I admire his courage to come forward. I also wish him all the best in his bid to find a suitable partner. Jia You!
Jenny

叶咏梅 said...

my email full? really? i gotta check. haha. hope to get more gals participating lah. He is my first client, if it's going to fail, i might not continue with a second one.

i originally intended to put a 23 year old gal first. when she sees a lot of people commenting on kevin, she was not so sure if she should take part.

so we should all give encouraging comments. i think last week i receive an email from a pretty gal in 30s wanting to take part, but she doesn't want her photo to be put on my blog. well, i guess, i will respect her decision.

Dun give up, i'm always behind you all! dun feel bad poolfans, know you are trying to find a reason. But sometimes, a lot of things happen without reason.

(PS:i always believe in women making the first move!Nothing to be shy about! TIME WAITS FOR NO woMAN)

Anonymous said...

Hi

I totally agree with u on your comments about letting our perceptions affecting our thoughts.

I'm 36 this yr still single (female). Been overseas for work & studies during my "prime" yrs. When I return to Singapore joined SDU. But seems like it's more for younger pple in their 20s. And those pretty flowers will have a lot of bees going to them. The average ones will only get to admire the pretty flowers being beseiged. ha haha

Currently enjoying my singlehood though. it's not that if we have past the so call marriageable age & still single, we have to be classified like outcast or alien just because we did not follow the route that most people take.

I agree that it's not as easy to find a mate after 30s as compared to those in their 20s so all the more we should encourage them when they make the 1st move.

I really admire his courage for going on air.

Gambatte!!! Jia you!!!

Anonymous said...

since he is so clever in every thing, why till now no girl friend. Something must be wrong. He must be a mother's boy or have some body smell which nobody likes. How many Cs he has? how much is in his cpf account?

Lynda said...

hi 咏梅。。hi,Kevin 加油yao!! Would u mind if ladies r older than u? i'm 48 thou i look 30+, 1.66+ metre tall, slim.. anyway i would luv to b yr friend if not yr Galfriend can? i can b reach via email.. anyway,咏梅 tell yr listeners, nothing wrong if by 40/50 still not married.. coz not only career but also no confidence if one has failed their relationship b4.. thank you!! :)

Anonymous said...

clever in everything wrong..not clever in everything also wrong!!!!b4 u gals want to know whether he virgin or how many Cs or his cpf acct..pls look at urself 1st..when u can ask such nonsensical questions..there is already a flaw in ur character..u want to know him..HE MAY NOT EVEN WANT TO KNOW U!!!!!!!!

RU

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Anonymous said...

vigin, clever and cpf questions are for kevin to answer . please don't be a crown or a KP to answer other people's question. mind your own business.

Anonymous said...

Respect others is also respecting yourself.

Think twice before you post your nonsense questions!

You want to know him or know his wealth?

Anonymous said...

IF I WANT TO KNOW HIS WEALTH IS ALSO NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. WHO ARE U TO KELVIN.

Vivienne said...

Hi Yongmei... still have problem sending emails to your email address. Got thrown back again. Tried sending from my company email still cannot work. Any other ways to reach u?

叶咏梅 said...

send to yongmei30@gmail.com

Really duno whats wrong.

Anonymous said...

hi yong mei,
My sister is 42 years old. I encourage her to participate in this program. She does. She had sent her particular to your email. Her name is Janet Lim. As of todate, no calls was given to her. Is her email received at your end. Thank you.

Anonymous said...

hi yong mei,
My sister is 42 years old. I encourage her to participate in this program. She does. She had sent her particular to your email. Her name is Janet Lim. As of todate, no calls was given to her. Is her email received at your end. Thank you.

kevin said...

Hey 咏梅 & all, first & formost I sincerely apologised for not able to make it to the station yday as I was really v busy n tired y'day & was awake for 29 hrs plus the runnin I did before going on air for the "男生女生配" program. Also I only got the 通告to be at the station the evening before & my works schedule were all scheduled.
After surfing the comments, I felt I should come on & clear the air as I felt v bad that it seem like a "war of words" goin on in this blog as wat 咏梅 said today after she read them. Relax man.. do not be so tensed up over it man.. as mentioned on air my primary intention is to widen my social circle pool of friends from the opp sex & if I get find my soulmate or partner, it would really be God's blessing & 咏梅 hardworks.
There is nothing wrong with me & who people who r still single at their late 30's or 40's, so do I. All the comments make me recall this meaningful song sung by MJ "Man in the mirror" that say "before you want to change this world, take a look at yourself in the mirror & make that change". Be humble & life would indeed be very lovely, (",).
I greatly appreciate those who standup for me in words against those negative comments & give encouragements to me, 真太感激你们了,谢谢!! You not only did a great deed in supporting me, but also very encouraging to those who still pondering to come on board for this program. For all the negative comments, I thank you as it take up your time to come on blodg to express yourselves. I accept all in all.. no hard feeling for me as none is perfect except God. OOPh, am peaching ... heheh.. I reckon I maybe the first & "old" one lah(haha!!)to come on board that's why got hit v hard, jus kidding as it's new mah, am sure it will get better as more & more guys & gals come on board. Let's open our mindset & think out of the box, in making this program a long lasting, successful & all time high rating one in this island.. Ooph.. i written too much..
Thank you 咏梅 & MC King, I had a great time & experience on air yday. Thank you for organising this program 咏梅, do not feel pressure about it, you are doing well, A Big Hand & Cheer to You...
God Bless, Kevin

Anonymous said...

Wow! 忽然间这麽多old stock 要进入市场。小心哦!结婚不是说结就结哦!有时候不结要比结好。我的朋友就是因为太冲动想结婚而现在要忙着要快快离婚。。。。

Anonymous said...

Hi YongMei! Do Kevin mind younger than him by 14 years?

Mei Ling

Anonymous said...

he look like周杰伦!!~~~ cool man!!~~

jade ting ting said...

I really hope to find friends too, hope to befriend him. Im 25 years old, name is jade soh, if you are interested to be my friend , pls email me at jade_soh8282@yahoo.com.sg , or any one is also welcomed too.
~*^O^*~

叶咏梅 said...

第一次的反应不错,将近10个人apply了。我自己反而担心,那么多好女孩apply了,不知道下个星期有没有那么多好男生apply呢。毕竟,这是需要勇气的。所以3 cheers for all those who applied! if we didn't choose you this round, can always help you look for possible friends in next round can?

Busy, busy, me going for my tutorial class in afternoon! yest nite catch MEET THE ROBINSONS. quite funny and meaningful.

ENJOY YOUR LONG WEEKEND....

Anonymous said...

I hope to find friends too, and also hope to befriend wif him. I am female, 29 years old from Indonesia, if you are interested to be my friend , pls email me at fairytale06@lycos.com , or any one is also welcomed too.

Anonymous said...

Hi, Kevin,
Are you staying at Tampines ? I think I did saw you last weeks!
Hope you will find your true love
-- Ahbee

JAN said...

一个看上去蛮文静但又挺自信的人。想问他-他认为用什么方法去旅行是最快乐的。
祝他好运!

Anonymous said...

Hi, I just do not have the guts to join this programmes although I am over the marriage age and give birth age years ago, my colleague who is a divorcees always broadcast my status and insult those not married is "心理变态" this is very hurting. In the past I just missed my chances, so those who interested in this programmes,do not hesitate. Maybe I am fated to be lonely forever.

Anonymous said...

RU, you are real cute in your bombardment. Made me laugh.

Anonymous said...

Hi,
Please ask him dont be so choosy! Got so many gf before muz be a great flirt.Orady 40 years old still want to pick here and there,haha.

Anonymous said...

还不快点早早找个女人娶了算了! 再过几年你就是老头了。 到时候,再好看再有钱也没用。。。。。。唉!

Anonymous said...

Hi,
Let me guess i tink he will choose the third gal,keke.Btw,izzit can choose all 3 ladies to mit up?Anyway,hope he can get his right lady,hee.
Beauty

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei,

I guess Kevin will choose the 1st girl. The 3rd girl is not a Singaporean right?
Anyway I admire Kevin for his openess & coolness in accepting this challenge. He is really very serious in finding the right mate. I'm also a 40 year old single woman but I would never dare to take this step out. So can also listen.
;)

Anonymous said...

Urm why die die must stay with his mum,what if the wife cant communicate or have problems with his mum then hw?Divorce her? I think nwdays,can stay near his mum what dun have to die die also stay 2gether lor.I admire his filial piety but must consider many pts also ma.
A pretty daughter-in-law.

Anonymous said...

what's about the 2nd gal ?

don't she stand a chance ?

叶咏梅 said...

actually i duno who kevin will choose. at first i thought it's felicia. now, after this gal appear, i think might be her too.

haha. tune in 2moro for the RESULTS SHOW!!!

Anonymous said...

hi, think Dione at 23yr is too young for Kevin.

If Kevin is seriously about finding a life partner and soul mate, he should look for a more matured lady.

Maybe someone in her early thirties.

Anonymous said...

Well done kevin for the past days on air!! You have set the pace for those coming up in the show. Can felt your sincerity & openness in your sharing.. 3 cheers to you & all the best in your search for soulmate.. My guess is felicia too.. Exciting lah, cant wait to hear from you tomolo..

Anonymous said...

hi Kevin,

you look very tan in the photo taken with MC.

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei
This program really very good , hope u will succes be a 'mei po' i want to joint this progaram i aslo almost 40s (male) still single but i scare. You Mei what means of'fried rice'????

Anonymous said...

Hi Kevin

I think u will choose the 3rd one becoz she not talk so much 2day.Look like she is a very good girl.

Anonymous said...

Hi Kevin,
I think u are very stingy with ur marks. Cant you give the gals higher marks to boost their confidence. Its not easy for ladies to come on air to talk to u,do u noe? So dont be so "Neow",max only 7/10!!!!

Unhappy lady

Daphne said...

KUDOS to "mei po" Mei for closing her 1st deal .... ~.O

Heartfelt wishes to Kelvin & his choice (4got her name....paiseh) :P

Anonymous said...

Hi yongmei,
can i ask,aft choosing felicia,he still get to mit up with the two other gals?jus curious to noe hw tis matching programme is done.Thank You.

Anonymous said...

hi Kevin,

You asked what Felicia likes to eat.
She told you she loves Japanese Food.
Will you be generous to treat her at expensive Japanese Restaurant (eg those mentioned by you earlier)when on dates ?

Anonymous said...

aiyo that Felicia first date already want to eat expensive japanese food,so clever. Poor Kevin have to spend a bomb on her before even knowing her well yet,haha.

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei

Yeh, I guess correctly.Kevin chose Felicia. Hope Felicia is sincere in befriending him.

May I know what is age of the 3 luckly ladies. I can't remember hearing it on air.

I also agree that you should try to give chance to ladies left on the shelves, ie. abv 27 yrs old, they are the ones that need help now.
:p

Anonymous said...

I listen to the program for the first time. I found Kevin very articulate.

Kevin, I fully agree with u that we can widen our social circle no matter how old we are.

Yong Mei, jia you!

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei,
enjoy listening to ur programme especially with MC as it really brightens up the day. All the laughter are so contagious that others must be wondering why I'm laughing to myself. Can MC be permanently on programme with you?

Anonymous said...

hi Kevin,

If a guy has a car, but rather leave it at home and request his date to take MRT or bus when on date, what do you think of him ?

And the date had to foot her own bus-fare as well.

Anonymous said...

hi anonymous,

I m curious; why did u ask Kevin such a qxn?? Do you know him personally? or what? And we shall see whether the 男主角has any answer?

叶咏梅 said...

sigh....singapore is so small.if you have a car it is so convenient to move from east to west.at most take about 30 mins. Should really make an effort to pick up your gal. If it's only once i can accept, if not, i will question his sincerity.

basically i dun make use of boyfriends with cars. once i bought two potted plants, i thought it would be troublesome to wait for him to pick me up. in the end i carried them way back to SLF building which is across the bridge and up the hill. haha!

Anonymous said...

hi Yong Mei/Kevin,

Regarding the car, I'm not referring to Kevin.
Yong Mei, tks for giving your opinion.
That car is not a weekend car.
That guy is trying to save on petrol, parking charges and wear and tear of the car.
The gal had to pay her own bus fare too.
Should a gal marry this kind of guy?
Will they be happy together.
She had know him for a year and it's still the same pattern.
Yong Mei, wish you all the best as a bartender tonite.

Anonymous said...

Hi Gal,
Tis kind of guy can throw away orady. Buy car and put at hm for what?? Deco ah? Ask him go marry his car lor.

kevin said...

Hey 咏梅, when i become 爱情顾问了。hehe.. jus came online.. Like 咏梅said jus now & i felt the same too, he is not so sincere lei..if his car is more impt than his girl friend, then why he need a girlfriend?? How much can he save on petrol & all as I drive. If he is so worry abt wear & tear of his car, then why buy a car or he jus bought it for show?? I know ppl like that also. My thought will be ask the gal to go & thrash out tis issue with him if it has been affecting her, else he will never know it. Like we said in the show yday that sometime we need to say it out in order for our partner to know what in our mind & not assume they will know.. But if already said, then I will leave it to her to measure her liking for him & her inconvenience when dating..
All the best to your gf in tis relationship..

咏梅, 加油 for tonite 的调酒,will try to be there if i can..
Kevin

Anonymous said...

Hi Kelvin,

Thanks for your comments about the car guy.
He bought the car to get to and from work.
On saturday and sunday when dating, they will have to take public transport.
Whenever the gal mentioned about using car, the mood will quite often be spoilt.
But he still want to marry her.
Why ?
Wish you all the best in your first date with Feliicia.

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

原来只可以用来止咳润喉!

Anonymous said...

Hi Yongmei,
I like ur tis programme alot,veri interesting,recommending my frds to listen also.Good Job! Keep it up! Hope you can really match many many couples up wor.hehe.
Mei mei

叶咏梅 said...

i've known of a guy who asked me to pay for his car insurance and petrol becos he comes daily to pick me up from work. haha...

i did pay and now, we have gone on separate ways. Trust your instinct, if you sense something is wrong, it's time to move on.

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Anonymous said...

I totally agreed with Kevin. Very ridiculous. Tell him to buy a house, dont stay in it, buy a folding bed sleep at the corridor to guide the house, so that it will not be dirtied. Buy clothes dont wear it, just hang in the wardrobe for show, because its wear and tear too.

Tell the gal, he is also wear and tear, just chuck him away.

Moon.

kevin said...

Ya man.. move on my friend, if u keep looking back, u will never progress ahead & locked yourself up. I think you know what I meant.. My thought for your gf, if $ come 1st before everything for him, Check Mate my friend!! Hope am not being too harsh on him..

Anonymous said...

Hi
I think it all boils down to personality upbringing. The man who does not use his car during dating is plain petty. Maybe he thinks that its worthworth for him to use during work as the cost is reimbursed thru salary & allowance, but dating is cost. Man should not be so calculative & must show that he cares for his gf to win her heart with sincerity.
My sis' bf does not hv a car, but he still make a point to see her home at doorstep downstair by public transport b4 heading home from east to north. I learnt that this is a thoughtful act that his parent cultivate in him. Thumbs up.All guys please learn..
For me, I'll look for guy who like me more than I like him, and accept my shortcoming and appreciate my gd pts.
Regards, Margaret

Anonymous said...

Hi Friends,

Thanks for sharing me your opinion on the car guy.
To summarise all your comments, a guy who is serious abt the gal, should not be too calculative when dating her.
After all, she didn't ask for diamonds, branded goods or expensive meals.
Just the basis mode of transport.
Will ask my friend to consider if she could change him.
If not, better to give him up.
Am I right ?

Anonymous said...

A leopard cannot change its spot, so no point changing him, eventually he will still go back his old self. She will still suffers.

Rather get a guy with no car, more considerate and concern for her.

Moon.

Anonymous said...

If this guy is rich, he don have to 男生女生配. Just go to Golden Mile Tower and purchase a vietnam wife. don waste time on knowing girl cos i think he have not much left. for 40 years old life have already pass half of it. So why waste time to know another female. Since he know so many language. Learn one more. it is easy to learn another language than to know and girl. That what i think?

Anonymous said...

hi,

A Vietnamese wife and a local wife are different.
If you bought a Viet wife, will there be any love ?
If she agreed to marry you, are you sure she marries you out of love or to get out of poverty?
Wherelse a local girl will mostly be independent.
No other motive for marrying you.

Anonymous said...

偶是越南人, 请你门不药说买买越南女人。偶门是人,不是东西可以买来买去。 偶门是好人家的女儿,只是逼于无奈才嫁来遮里。你门以为偶门很喜荒这里?凳偶门有了钱之后,偶门一定会回偶门的国家。看看你门新加破的男能整莫死。一切都要DIY! 感恩,素竹硅!

Anonymous said...

i also a vietnamese, i also can love someone like the singapore girl, at least i got no demand like the local girl here. i do not expect much just a loving husband will do.

Anonymous said...

hi dear Viet friend,

We don't mean you cannot be a good wife.
We mean to say that although there are many handsome and young men in Vietnam (more handsome and much younger than our Singapore men), Viet girls still choose to marry Singaporean.
Why?
Because they want to get out of poverty.
Which mean to say that their very intention and purpose is not LOVE.
Singapore girls is just looking for a life partner/ soul mate.
They don't need a man to get out of poverty.
They can support themselves

Anonymous said...

Why choose vietnam gal gal? China women beta lah,cheaper and can communicate and easier to apply also leh.Try lah,veri ting hua one. Who want i can intro? Find me Ken here.....

Anonymous said...

Here also so much rubbish,Yongmei sister why u nv delete stuff here becos Kevin not popular anymore siboh? Be fair lah,delete lah.
Richard Boss

Anonymous said...

My dearest Richard Boss,

if everything delete here, nothing you can see le.
here become 人民日报。

qh said...

hi Yong Mei,

I do find those people who are out to make fun of your programme irritating.

joseph said...

Hi kevin

dun care wads other said, just follow the feel of ur heart. jia you jia you

Diamond said...

Hi,
Why are you so protective of yong mei da jie? You like her huh?haha.I tink ur target is her leh nt any of the three gals rt??too bad da jie marry le.

kevin said...

Think you r oversensitive, Diamond. Maybe that is my nature that like to 打抱不平 when seeing people get treated injustice, or people said 多管嫌事lor.. moreover she is mine "mei po".. :)

Diamond said...

To Kevin,
so hws ur progress wif felicia?

kevin said...

Hey Diamond,
We havent in contact yet as meetup date over gathering not set as yet by "mei po" with all of them. I believe she is very busy lately also preparing for her coming exams. No worry, yongmei, good things r worth waiting. (",)

Diamond said...

Hi Kevin,
ok ok gd luck,all the best,hope u can settle down soon.But gd leh,u get to interact with all three gals,can still make frds with them and see which one more suitable hor,hee.