Tuesday, April 17, 2007

现在的DJ是被人骂,被人威胁的吗?

这几天,我一直在想为什么我的blog会被一些人前来闹场,而且闹了之后还骂你无聊小气。如果没有即刻让有register的用户留言,我相信整个我辛苦 建立的blog被毁于一旦。我真的去972所有DJ的blog,国外艺人的blog等。国外艺人几乎都需要会员register才能够留言,就算没有,都 不会有人去别人的blog闹场的。为什么我会有这样的“待遇”?

我一直觉得being too nice是我的缺点。因为你没有立场,别人可以踩到你头上来,把你当球来踢。就象顽皮的一孩不是一夜之间顽皮的,很多时候都因为被父母宠坏了。

昨天跟德江吃饭时才聊到为什么香港DJ被艺人尊重,被听众爱戴,被唱片公司重视,而本地DJ是被听众骂到狗血淋头还要低声下气地说sorry。有些DJ愤愤不平,有些DJ难过不已。

不回应也被骂,说了也被骂。在本地,DJ是最没有尊严的工作了。

我设立这个blog的真正原因,刚开始,是为了配合I周刊宣传,后来我爱上了用这个方式收集回忆,让我的朋友在我不在人世的一天,可以上来看看这些回忆。后来,为了方便更多听众上网来讨论节目话题,我尽量把内容放在网上。

你给人方便,他们把你当随便。

我无法控制每个人的想法。说不定一些人是利用我的弱点让这个BLOG从此消失,我苦心经营的BLOG是不会让人破坏的。

如果你觉得这只是个尿尿的地方,那请你去厕所吧。这里绝对不是尿尿放屁的场所。

26 comments:

qh said...

Dear Yong Mei,

Don't let those uncivilised people affect what you are doing and how you feel.
They are not worth your while.
They should be the one feeling embarassed at what they have done.
I believed they are not brought up well.
But to be honest, I realised that present youngsters, teens and children no longer have any manners when dealing with their elders.
In our olden times, we are thought to respect our elders, neighbours.
To greet them when we meet them.
But nowadays youngster don't do that any more.
They in turn expect us to greet them first.
I wonder what had happen to all the moral education.
Dear Yong Mei, you have done a good job.
Keep it up.

kevin said...

嗨咏梅,
我看了之后也在想:其实骂你无聊小气的这一些人前来闹场的人,他们才是真够无聊小气透顶,常常把自己的快乐建筑在别人的痛苦上,还自称好玩! 在香港,,他们会被称为 “不知所谓,不敢公为”也!! Well done for the opening song today, it reflect exactly wat I reckon these ppl are!!

Being too nice aint 你的缺点,没有立场, 只是别人 take things for granted, 踩到你头上来,, 他们还占占自乐,不知悔 改。。Blodg 友 们,尝试想一下,如你邀请朋友上你家, 而他们把你家搞得乱七八糟的,你会开心吗?点到为止,见 好收手,人家给你方便,不可把她当随便,别让咏梅苦心经营的BLOG上在搞破坏了!谢谢你们了!!

咏梅,加油!!还 有 很多支持你朋友 们在也。。。向前看~ 明天肯定会更好的。。

mikkahoo said...

がんばって。。。yongmei.. not to worry about those people who 'vandalised' your blog... you've done a very good job in bringing good programmes to us, listeners. I enjoy your programmes...

Alvin Chua said...

Dear YM

yes, there are people out there who are never happy with what others do.. they feel like the world belongs to them and we have to do everything to their liking.. but they are just frogs in a well.. so don't bother much about these people. and you should be happy to know that you have loyal fans behind supporting you
cheers!
Alvin

Weng Foo said...

Dear Yong Mei

You are doing a GREAT job! Please don't let these little unpleasant incidents spoil your passion and drive for your work. There will always be those who are simply out to make life miserable for others. Just don't be too bothered.

I think you and MC have a fantastic chemistry. The giggles and laughters that you both share on air are simply so contagious. Hearing you both giggle and laugh just make me want to do the same as well. I think you two should consider striking a long-term partnership on air together.

Cheers
Weng Foo

lavendar said...

u have done a great job, Renee. Don't be put off by all the comments and criticisms.Reading your blog is part of my daily life now. Keep it up!!

Moon said...

Dearest Yong Mei,

I agreed with qh. Don't be upset over those uncivilised people, its not worthwhile.

There are still many others like us still supporting you, we really appreciate and support your good job. KEEP IT UP and JIA YOU...

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SleepyLeo said...

Dear Yong Mei,

Think on the positive side. It shows that ur blog is very popular as compare to the rest. U hv done a great job! We can see tat u put lots of efforts in it & updates quite regularly.

Well, that's life! There's always good and bad, devils and angels. It's the devils who make the rest an angel! I don't know if u can understand the meaning but I do hopes u will get stronger each day. Ignore the bad comments & remember the good one. U will feel better...

VaNeSsa said...

heyy not only DJ has these retarded people arnd.. many others' blogs too have em.. u cant avoid people who doesnt lik u, swear and cursed u but in the end, still wanna read ur blog.. haha.. retarded rite? cheers..=)

poolfans said...

That is life...
Whatever u do, u cant please every single one.. Esp when u r dealing with the public, there are bound to have someone who like to criticise a thing or two...

Just like MC king said... Learn to live with it, see open... Dun feel sad over it...不值得..

And U know there will always be a Group of Supporter behind U... And U will Never Wlak alone.!!!

Jia You... Stay strong and Positive..ok?!!!

pearlz said...

嗨咏梅,加油! Don't let any one spoilt yr day, U hv done a v v very gd job! Keep it up!! Don't let those 无聊的BLOG upsad U ok.. 就当是八kua news ya! By the way, MC & U are a pair of gd compare tat give us a bundle of JOY!! :p)

Cheers!! Take Care!!

KL said...

咏梅
上你的BLOG已成我(或大家)的习惯,加油.
KL

dongdong said...

yong mei,
ni hao,jia you ba,you done well.
life is short,just enjoy what you are doing now.

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瀚翔 said...

咏梅,你好,

发生这样的事,真的会很生气,很不开心,下次如果有看到这样的留言,就不要再看下去,直接跳去下一个留言好了!
有空的话,就到我的部落格来看看吧!
My blog title is
("游子" 瀚翔的部落格-
"人生如戏 @ 戏如人生" )
http://peter-hungsiang.blogspot.com/
好了! 我要去忙了! 再见!
记得哦! 不要把这样的事情使到自己不开心, Ok!

DapHne said...

Dear Yong Mei,

Those are inferiority xiao ren so don't take it to heart....hui lau de wor!

You are doing an amazing job. Know why? Well, I've been a faithful listener since last year and this is the 1st station that I stay tune in all day. Thanks to all the Lovely DJs :)

Ganbatte!!

Linda Wong said...

Dear Yong Mei,

Just Do IT! Don't let "uncivilised" people spoilt your day. You have done a Great Job. Keep it up & Jia You, Jai You, Jia You. We Support YOU.

L-5 said...

Hi 咏梅,

Pls keep up ur good work....

There is a will, there is a way.

有志者事竟成.

Cheers.

叶咏梅 said...

thank you 4 your encouragements. frankly speaking when i wrote this comment, i was kinda of thinking that this is going to attract more attacks. so, i am thankful for every single one of you who took time to register and wrote positive comments.

lc said...

Yong Mei, u can't please the whole world.

As long as you have a clear conscience, just ignored those disheartening remarks.

Best luck to you.

Dolly

Nicole Hah said...

yong mei,

different people got different thinking, some of the people are dont know what is the duties for DJ.

just want to tell those 無聊peoples, if you dont like PLEASE turn to the channel you like, and not talking nonesence here! THANK YOU VERY MUCH.

jia you! you all are the best.

wishing you have a nice weekend.

Rascal said...

世界什么东西最难搞?就是人类!人类那一部最毒?就是嘴巴! y bother. hahaha

雯琪 said...

詠梅 :

很多事情不是理所當然,
懂得珍惜是一門學問,
別氣餒,
就為了~~
那些懂得珍惜的人吧!!

加油了!!

P/S : 當笑大聲笑, 喜歡真性情的你..

雯琪
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Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei,

I could understand your anguish when one's hardwork being unrecognized.But comes to think of it,u still earn* coz u hv so much more gd supporters compare to 2-3 barbarians..keke..
I certainly hope u would braced up & turn those *unpleasant advice into motivation instead..Afterall,life still goes on & we hv to learn from experience.

Cheers to a more beautiful World..

Love,Iris Kong