Wednesday, June 01, 2005

无妄之灾。。。。

当DJ,我们必须为自己说的话负责。要言之有物,要启发听众。但是,现在的广播,听众想听的不只是纯粹知识,他们希望DJ能娱乐他们。所以,经常会发生说 者无意,听者有心的事。人有很多种,如果你不小心遇到较为敏感的听众,那你肯定完了,他们会认为你在针对他们,在丑化他们,在讽刺他。天啊! 无意间踩中地雷,怎么死的都不知道。

刚才接受晚报记者韵红的访问,说有听众传真到报馆,骂我无聊,开她的玩笑。其实,我昨天已经接到这位小姐的多封传真。每张都是用同样的company letterhead,字体一模一样,但是,每张都用不同的名字,把我骂得狗血淋头而且张张attention 监制或节目经理。今早又接到用英文打字的集体联合抗议信。 oh my god! 怎么又是同样的letterhead! 然后是 endless的nuisance calls.

what have i done to deserve this?我只是说她每天风雨不改为阿鸿写情信,反正两个人都单身嘛,有机会发展。我还要求阿鸿在空中交待是否接到她的信。因为这是她在信中要求阿鸿做的事啊。 Whats the problem?

我只想息事宁人所以没有向报馆提供哪些相同letterhead的传真。韵红问我,会不会因此不再打情骂俏,不再开玩笑。Of course not! 但是我肯定不会再开这个听众的玩笑。

干嘛把自己的日子过得那么严肃,拘谨? I can take jokes and even comments so long its not人身攻击。

别人要怎么想我阻止不了,i am not there to please everyone. ; ) IT"S MY LIFE......(bon jovi万岁!)

5 comments:

DJ Kevin said...

i also had a listener calling in and scold me .. why i always talk about her problems on air..

I remember i was only announcing traffic and reading the news...

Tonnes of crazy people out there. Those that are supportive are countable.

Now you know why i quit being a DJ... Bad luck to get scolded everyday .. hahahha

concerned mum said...

You may feel angry with what happen but if u have not uttered her full name on air and broadcast, maybe you won't get scolded. it's such a sensitive issue abt boy girl friend. Moreover, fans have every right to write love letters to their idols so why make a big fuss?? Put yrself in her shoes, how she,her family and friends feel about it?? Be more sensitive to yr fans' feelings and dun utter sensitive issue with fan's name on air...apologise quickly dun wait for pple to complain to the news then u take action.

Anonymous said...

Mrs Helen Tay and some ardent fans of 972 have to say:
maybe the radio station is too small in Singapore and less exposure for DJs??? So when fans are more intimate and show more emotions, it becomes a 'big issue' for DJs to talk on air??? Just look at those ardent fans of Superstars n Singapore Idols, even contestants receive love letters everyday, with ardent fans even camp outside their houses, how will you all DJs react??? haaaa....take tranquillizer to stay calm??? come on!! respect yr ardent fans!! Think of the consequences when you broadcast people's full name on air, thousands people hear it, have you spare a thought for that fan's feeling?? Worse, you even published her whole stack of faxes on the newspaper!!! We pity that ardent fan!!! It must be very hurting for her....If you are that fan or her family or friends, sure you'll be very angry with that unethical DJ too!!! Even layman like us got people trace us, admire and send love letters, what's wrong for fans sending to their idol DJs?? Why must broadcast people's name on air and make a big issue out of it?? Girl-boy friend or not,it's up to Ah Hong and that fan...Yong Mei shouldn't have interfere and very unethical to broadcast people's full name on air....hehehe..you 2 should thank that fan who give your the chance to be on the headline, otherwise, no chance to appear on the paper!!! heeeeee...fans are actually part of yr rice bowl, imagine if nobody listens to yr program......so be grateful and stop making a fuss!!!

Anonymous said...

祸从口出!!是非只因多开口!!说话前,想清楚了才说!!

Anonymous said...

Why don't you bear the consequences courageously instead of pushing all the blame to that poor listener??

Nobody ask you to announce her full name on air even if she likes Ah Hong. What's wrong?? In reality, you pple know the truth that her liking is not as what you pple exeggerated!! It's just a simple liking for an idol!! Moreover, Ah Hong has so many ardent fans who love him!! She must be the real unlucky one to be picked by you coz you really upset her peaceful life after that!!

Can you visualise so many people who know her hear 972 and how pple will gossip abt this topic!! Worse! she's working and all her colleagues, bosses all heard you mentioned her full name on air that she's Ah Hong girl frenz which in reality you pple know SHE'S NOT AH HONG GIRL FRENZ!!!

You are the one who started the whole thing and yet you act innocent and twist the whole story and make others think you're innocent and the poor listener is in fault!! On the newspaper, you ord said Ah Hong told you not to announce her name coz it's very sensitive and you stubbornly go ahead to announce her name not once but repeatedly!!

Moreover we all can be witnesses!!! We saw all her faxes and never any love letter as what you made up the story!! There're just encouragement faxes coz Ah hong always expressed his sadness abt his ex!! And she asks Ah hong to reply is to reply to all the Qs we all ask abt some health and beauty problems hor!! She wrote on our behalf coz her chinese is good. U saw those faxes wat! Y r u twisting the truth!!!??

Very sad that you pple made such a big fuss out of an ardent fan's faxes and ridicule her for your own selfish reasons as what Ah Hong can even on air to apologise to her saying that it's for 节目效果 tat's y pick her saying tat she's his girl frenz!! Dun you think you pple really too much!! If wanna do such thing, IN THE 1ST PLACE ASK FOR HER PERMISSION FIRST!!! THAT'S RESPECT FOR YOUR LISTENERS OK!!

Put yrself in her shoes: If that listener is yr family member or frenz and a big mouth and unethical DJ announced her full name on air and ridicules her to be a famous artiste's girl frenz which is not true in reality and den ruin her peaceful life into constant rumours after that, how you feel?? Worse thing is: the listener has been supporting you since FM100.3 and see how you hurt her by getting her into an office grapevine and rumours just coz of you uttering nonsense abt her and Ah Hong on air? Why must you hurt yr loyal fan that way?? What has she done to deserve such hurting impact fm u pple???

Moreover, she faxed in to demand you to apologise, yet you have the gut to mention her name on air and get her into rumours but you have no gut to apologise until we pple complain to the news then you apologise!! All our faxes are paid faxes and handled by 专人of course is same fax no!! what's wrong?? You never heard of paid faxes meh???

Despite what you did to her, when come to your 金麦奖 she still can be so forgiving to cast so many votes for you and Ah Hong to suppt you all coz she's a very forgiving gal and din bear any grudge with you!!!

I post this long comment coz I feel very sad when I browse your whole blog and saw your post abt this incident and how you have twisted the story you had made up to cover up for your own fault. I feel very sad coz I also suppt you for many years and I am very very disappointed coz you got my good frenx into rumours and spoil her peaceful life when she has not done anything to hurt you!!! Over here, you have no courage to face up to your own action....very disappointed with you :(