Sunday, December 14, 2008

Dear friends, please allow me to thank each and everyone of you.



2008 has been my toughest year so far. A lot of unexpected things happened.

There are times when I cried as I walked, in a cab and even before hosting movie premieres. In the past, i always think i can handle any life's tough moments by myself, I don't need help at all. I'm grateful that He has not given up on me and has given me the strength to face each of the the events with courage and hope.I'm really very thankful to a lot of friends who offer a listening ear or pray for my mum. This includes xiaoying who drives me to hospital after work to visit my mum,
秀珍, Jean, shengan, Dawn etc for praying for my mum, Bryan teacher, Keith, Kelvin, Kevin Dejiang, Biyu, 小雪, Jon for your heartwarming smses, Shihao for cooking stuff for my mum, my brothers, alamak for offering help, 洪老师for giving suggestions to improve her constipation problems, nurses of TTSH Ward 9 and AMK community hospital. Last but not least, 苏心荃医生for your medical advise during those really crucial moments.

I'm writing this in English because i do not want my mum to worry for me should she visit my blog when she gets better. She has Parkinson disease and you may know, its incurable.

When you feel down and really hopeless, don't be afraid to seek help. As human beings, our abilities are limited. Don't be afraid to look for help. I started going to overseas Parkinson support group forum for more information and somehow, it prepares me for the worst that is going to happen.

Its not easy to stay hopeful in times of distress but I'm grateful I accepted Him as my saviour.

My relationship with mum used to be very strained for years. But now, she is the reason for my happiness in life. As long as she is fine, nothing in life is more important than this.

I'll be carolling in Wisma Atria this coming sat 20/12 7pm. After that i'll be carolling from house to house. You are welcome to come and support if you want!

Merry Christmas!

60 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dear Yong Mei
May the Lord bless you and keep you in his Love. Keep praying!
Jen

Jia said...

Hello Yong Mei!
I know how you feel...no matter how we used to feel or whatever misunderstandings that we may have with our loved ones, when they are stricken ill, our heart just soften and the anger or negative feelings simply 'dissolves' away. Take good care of your health during this trying period....and do give your mum a hug during this festive season--it'll speak tonnes of love, more than words can say!

Anonymous said...

Dear Yong Mei,

I am really sad that i have read thru yr comment tonight.

Yes, our Mother is our dearest kinship to us bec u r their children.

Yong Mei, pls take care of yrself n may god bless u n yr mother n family with gd health, keep smiling n successful career.

fm karen tong

Anonymous said...

Dear Yong Mei,
You are a strong lady that I know you will pass through every obstacles that are presented in front of you... Do take care of yourself... Tell yourself you are tough enough to go through this period of time... All the best...

Elton Li

Anonymous said...

Dear Yong Mei,

Though is tough, hope you are able to walk through bravely... and is the process that will make you a better person... 加油!

Gem

Anonymous said...

Hi

Yong mei

Be Strong and stay through. The lord will bless and give you strength. Cos your mum needs you right now.

Anonymous said...

Hi Xiao Ying.

Thk u for taking gd care of our fav Disc Jockey, Yong Mei for us.

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei

You are so lucky that u have so many friends helping u.

God Bless u and yr family.

Take care

Judy

Anonymous said...

MuMMY..

jia you


from ..

god daddy !!

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei I felt so sad to know that your mum is ill. I only wish she can have a speedy recovery and wish you can stay strong to look after her.I am a former nurse and if there is any help that you need can you let me know?I hope I can give you some help.With warmest regards.from Katherine one of 97.2 fan of yours

Anonymous said...

Dear Yong Mei,

Indeed not easy to take care of yr Mom who is ill and u've to work at the same time.

God will protect & bless both u & yr Mom, juz pray or talk to him...

Jia You.

Jamie (oh_cheng) with the Sunny Face

Anonymous said...

Yong Mei,
Jia U!!!

irene

Julia said...

Dear Yong Mei,

Praise him , for he is always by your side! Take care.

CCL said...

Yong Mei

Glad to know that you are in the big family of Christ
Dont worry. You and ur mum r always in His hand!
:)

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei
I have been a faithful listener for yrs & your voice is one of the familiar ones :) Always so cheery & your very hearty laughter.

It's really not easy that inspite of life's difficult moments, esp one of our love ones is not well, we still have to go on. For you you still have to be your cheery self. Not easy but PRAISE GOD, He's our strength & throught that our joy!!

BLESSED Christmas! ;)

Jewel said...

Hey there! you are a strong girl! Take things in bite size and work on them as they come okay! Keeping you and family in prayers!

^^TeReNcE^^ said...

1 more week to christmas!.. Hohoho :P

Anonymous said...

HiYong Mei,

Take care

L-5 said...

Hi Yong Mei

冬至即至, 本来很希望能弄个大汤圆送给你 可惜我厨艺没有天分。。。

再想想圣诞也快到了, 原本很想偷偷潜进你家给你派送圣诞礼物, 但又怕你报警把我当贼抓。。。

就唯有拿出我那不值钱的真心来祝福您:
"冬至和圣诞节快乐。"

Cheers :D

Anonymous said...

Hi,
How is ur mum? Hope she is in the pink of her health. Road ahead of you may not be as smooth as you yearn to be but life like e road required or have to continue to walk though. Only by walking though, u will then see the sunlight u hoped to. Ur story touched my heart n again, I truly salute u n I'm confident u r strong enough 2 go though it... B brave...

Elton Li

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei,

U on leave today, oh..............my God is Xiao Ying again. i will tune on to other station liao.....

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei,

Faster come back we miss your programme, currently your programme is hoisted by Xiao Ying which we felt she is not as friendly, kind & patient as you are, she is a petty woman and often act cute.

MeRrY cHrIsTmAs & a bLeSsEd nEW YeAr to U!!!!!!

Jon

Jasmine said...

Glad that u have become a Christian though im a buddhist no matter what religion u are its important to pray ..so thanks for sharing on the net and continue to be strong will pray for ur mum too

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei,
Just want to encourage you to stay positive & lift up your problems to the Lord. He who is faithful had promised never to leave us nor forsake us. I was suffered from lymphoma for 8 years (1996-2004), & the Lord was always there for me to give me strength and walked with me during the dark period of my life.
I'm very sure He'll be with you too during this trial.
All the best
Gina

anne said...

Yong Mei........Merry Christmas! ...............

Anonymous said...

yong mei,
Wishing you and your family all our blessings for a beautiful Christmas season!

小雪

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei,

Wish you Merry Christma & A Happy New Year

Judy

L-5 said...

Yong Mei

Ho ho ho! Merry Christmas ****

在此,我衷心地祝您

圣诞快乐, 2009 新年进步, 身体健康. :D

Cheers

Anonymous said...

Hi, Yong Mei

Jia you, Just pray & Believed, put everything in God hand, God will bless u & your family.

eileen

christine said...

Hi Yong Mei
I'm sorry to hear about your mum, but this is life... there are happy times and there are sad times.
Lift up to our Good Lord and put all your problems in His hands, He will see them through.
May God Bless you always!
christine

Anonymous said...

Dear Yong Mei,

Thanks for so much information on the DIY skincare. I will try the one for the lightening of the dark circle. Need a great favour from you, could you kindly help me to ask Biyu the contact no for the plastic surgeon doctor who is on air this morning. I'd like to further treatment for my eye. thanks so much. my email:ppclin@singnet.com.sg

Anonymous said...

hi sister in christ

be strong always, we too have gone through. keep praying and have Faith in HIM.

God Bless
1 thessalonians 5:16
Be joyful always,pray at all times,
be thankful in all circumstances.This is what God wants from you in your life in union with Christ Jesus.

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