Monday, October 29, 2007

今年最觉得年轻的生日礼物!


小雪送的汽球加花束,让人心花怒放!谁说女人不能送女人花!

今年对我来说是个许多不愉快的事情发生的一年.如果你是我的老友,可能知道我今年是怎么过的.很多人说不经一事不长一智.我还是觉得自己学不会狠.我告诉朋友,"女人的狠是被无赖的男人训练出来的."而我的男性朋友说"女人本来就狠,是无赖的男人激发出来吧了."

只有狠才能得到自己想要的,唯有狠才不被别人欺负,唯有狠才不会让自己损失太多,狠才是唯一出路吗?然而,我还是不够狠.如果狠下心肠,或许这一切都不会发生.

所以做人不能太于心不忍,吃亏的总是自己.

会发生的总会发生的,我相信我可以坚强面对,不会再闭上双眼时,想到无赖时,会掉泪.因为那是狠女人不会做的事.

26 comments:

lei28 said...

吃一欠,长一智,这句名言告诉我们很多东西
大多数的女人心肠都很软,很多事情有时候不
是自己能控制的。
前几天我房东跟我说他们不想租了,要我另找
屋子。我在他们家住了差不多有六年了,搬进
去时租金算是贵的,中间我有想过要搬,但还
是住下了。我帮了他们很多,对他们的小孩和
佣人都很好。现在的租金起的很高,我和同事
说这件事,他们都说怎么在这时要你搬,我真
的很郁闷。这就是心肠太软的结果。
相信你已走出来了。
Enjoy your holiday!

xiao xue

Anonymous said...

Hi Renee,

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY !!

I know your story.
I think your character is just like mine.

Horoscope : Scorpio, Blood Type: A+

No wonder, we got 'cheated' so easily when people think that we are not fierce enough.

Best regards
Jacqueline Teo

Grace said...

Hi Yong Mei,

You sounded so pathetic!!! Why? What happened?? Speak out and I'm sure you'll feel better.....

Stay Pretty & Happy

Grace

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei,

I am also scorpio, and according to scorpio, we should not be like that right? But I am also like you, also get "cheated", "betrayed", "make used" by friends, best friends, ppl who i give me heart...

I also SUPER softhearted, just couldn't bring myself to be heng4!!! So always got HURT DEEPLY!!! ppl may think i am stupid but because i know they are actually lying to me,etc, just that i keep quiet and they thought i am stupid!

I feel very very confused because i just don't know how to protect myself in term of not giving my truth feeling to anyone (unless those who are unfriendly or bad to me at the beginning).

Is not that i always didn't learn my lessons but just COULDN'T DO IT!!! SAME AS YOU???

WHY just can't ppl be simple though they always say they also simple,etc...a whole batch of hyporcrite and liars who sometimes or rather now most of the time, make me VERY VERY CONFUSED whether to believe them or not,I just afraid that is due to my sensivitiy but i am confused and scared due to countless experiences of being "cheated",etc...

HOW ar??? I think you worst because you are in the entertainmnent line, right? Now i really don't know how...really scared and near to be totally disappointed with ppl!!! including those so called best friends!!! Nothing in this world is lasting forever and real!!!!!!!! but i just couldn't bring myself to be "HARD"

Yong Mei, I think we understand totally that kind of feeling we are talking about right? this world is too complicated!!!!

Anonymous said...

HIRenee,

Hey! Ask MC back and he will bright your day.

Happy Birthday to you.

May all the wishes come true.

Regards
Judy

Anonymous said...

hi yong mei, where is chicken's goddaddy?? how come his blog no longer here??

Anonymous said...

hi Yong Mei
on 528 blog is selling 1 IPOD , the e-mail is kkf-200736@yahoo.com.sg, i tyry 3 times still failed, is it the address wrong can u help me to check

Thank You

傻MUI said...

目前我也在想该不该说.不说会影响自己,说了对于双方都是两败俱伤,没有所谓的谁占上风. 如果事情真如他所说的闹大,我希望我可以不澄清,清者自清.

谢谢你们的留言.

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei (I am the anonymous, 8.29pm),

Ya, I understand the tong4 ku3 and struggle that you are undergoing. just like what you said "目前我也在想该不该说.不说会影响自己,说了对于双方都是两败俱伤,没有所谓的谁占上风. 如果事情真如他所说的闹大,我希望我可以不澄清,清者自清."...I always thought of if i say, i will be "released" but will do "harm" to the other party, so i didnt' have the heart to say out but that makes me very very tong4 ku3...If we have the "hard hearted" like most ppl who just will protect themselves and don't care...How ar? Think scorpio have 2 of us like that are really exceptions...

At least you have MC to talk to...?

Anonymous said...

hi yong mei,
may know where is kevin???

Anonymous said...

hi yong mei,
gather yourself up and start fresh after your birthday. dont' think about the lousy stone cause your gem will appear soon. i experienced wat you are feeling now and i was lucky, i had a goddess (really a goddess) told me dont dwell on that lousy stone cause my gem will appear in time to come. now i am a very happily married woman, my husband is a great man (to me) and that i want to tell that person is "not worth" your feeling upset. you should be happy, infact i was grateful that the person left me. So Cheer Up and live a good life, you deserve it. :)

auntie jude

小叮噹 said...

你到了香港陳弈迅演唱會,聼了《淘汰》后,就把所有你遇到的不如意事,和你身邊所有的小人,通通全部淘汰掉!

smilefool said...

hi
i do not know what happen to you?
life is like a coin have two side positive and negative.
Look at the postive side this brighten the day
cheer x3

Anonymous said...

咏梅,

请问德江去了那里??
什么时候回来??



谢谢!!

yinqing said...

Hello yong mei! Can you please tell me where are all the nice nice Taiwan clothes sold in Singapore? e-mail me can?


Qing

Jane said...

I also had many unhappy things happened within this year of Pig n even last few years. But what can I do? There is not always a solution for every problem, bu shi ma? What we only can do are to try our best to live life happily, with no regret. Happy birthday! Be cheerful, always try to look on the bright side of things. Take good care.

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei

Ask MC King to come back. Since you go to the evening programme you sound not lively at all can sense you are down.

傻MUI said...

只能说我认了。。。。(陈奕迅淘汰的歌词)昨天跟朋友聊天才知道她的状况。我们一直都以为自己过得不好,别人过得更好,其实,如果我们不问,他们不说,我们真的永远不会知道对方生活得如何。别以为别人过得很开心就羡慕他们, 每个人都有自己的难处。

说我完全没事了是假的,但是我在学习如何冷静地处理问题。下个星期礼莲帮忙代班,可以让我出国休息一下,真的很难得,你们要给她支持哦!

德江已经离开972电台。 其实都回复无数次了,还是有人问。

我会带我的mac book 电脑出国。 天气转凉了,所以衣服也会带多一些。 当然,我的宝贝也会带出国。

Jane said...

Yong Mei, last time I used to think the same like u. It's true. Everyone has his/her own difficulties. We can't always rely on somebody. Be strong. That's what life is! Wish u have a wonderful trip ahead. U'll take what "Bao Bei" with u? Care to tell? :-D

Oink Oink said...

Yongmei,

You bringing Chiken with you on holiday, how abt Big Bird? Bring him along, so when you study, Chiken will have a play mate mah.
Enjoy your holiday, re-charge and come back..
:-D

Anonymous said...

嗨咏梅,
人生总会有很多不愉快的事情发生,
我们也只能坚强面对。
三年前我也受了重伤,这三年我走不出阴霾
但,日子还是要过啊。。。。
我相信我一定会等到晴天的到来!
你也一样哦,我们一起加油吧!!!
假期愉快!!!


lavender

Anonymous said...

嗨咏梅,
别不开心了,人生不就是这样吗!
有起有落,有聚有散.......
以前有个朋友常说:看开一点;冷静一点,
唉....那有这么容易呢.
如果能看得开就不会有怨气了!!!
我们一起学习吧!!!


薰衣草

Anonymous said...

嗨咏梅,
别不开心了,人生不就是这样吗!
有起有落,有聚有散.......
以前有个朋友常说:看开一点;冷静一点,
唉....那有这么容易呢.
如果能看得开就不会有怨气了!!!
我们一起学习吧!!!


薰衣草

Anonymous said...

咏梅,

看开点吧!人生就是这样,总有不如意事。
太执著不就是咽不下那口气而已吗。。。。
算了吧,爱自己哦!!




薰衣草

Anonymous said...

Hi Yong Mei,

When everything is smooth, every friend are good. When one are really down and need a lot of help or just listening ears, those friends, even BEST friends will NOT be there after a while!!!! I hate this word "need to rely on own"...Is not that we want to trouble friends but when days are ok, they will say you can always call me when you are down,etc! But when that unfortunate period arrives, those words become you cannot rely on friends. come on lar, if can, who would want to trouble or bother friends...though friends always bother or i always be there for them but now....seems like a friend in need is a friend indeed and i really know the "true colour"!

Agree?

karen

Cindy said...

Hi Yong Mei

First time see your blog. Hmm...din know wat problems you are facing now however whatever happen we must be strong cos life still have to go on, globe won't stop becos of us. There is this guy I had met and he want to settle down wz me however we only know each other less than 6 months and he is not stable in his job. We had lost and contact each other a few times however during our last meeting he eventually sent me a sms saying he don't have feeling for me and I was sad and furious and reply him why he still wan to contact me again after so many months later? Funny right?