Thursday, May 03, 2007

next week 男生女生配"男主角"


Alan Heng has got an interesting job working with SCDF! HE IS A FIRE FIGHTER for 8 years and now he is handling logistics side.
He is 32 years old now and his hobbies include dining, organise outings for singles, bowling and SALSA DANCING! wow!
His requirements-> 1) Have a decent job
2) Similar interests
3) Caring and understanding
4) Good temper!
Looks like qualities of good wife too!
If you are interested in being his friend, pls email me --> yongmei30@gmail.com with your particulars including PHONE NO., interests, what are you working as or any info which can help us know you better!
And I have to apologise to Claris for everything. really feel very bad but i tried my best.

96 comments:

Nicole Hah said...

sorry yong mei! can i check with you, do you received my email! because i never recived any reply from you! so just want 2 double check with you!

sorry for any inconvenience!

叶咏梅 said...

yes! yes! me so busy with exams. going to have nervous breakdown soon.

Nicole Hah said...

oh ya! forget you are busy for your exams! anyway thank you very much!

like you and mc king! jia you!

Anonymous said...

Jia you!! Alan hope u able to find ur Miss Right!!

Anonymous said...

u fussy king,still want wife to work,cannot provide for her meh?Will die ah?Then still must share same hobbies as u,so troublesome.Some more u dun look gd also so fat still so fussy.OLD MAN.

Kate

Anonymous said...

But nowdays most family are double income family, single family income are hard to handle. I dunno how much he is earning, but i presume max $2.2k for a SGT, after CPF left not much, still need to give a few hundred for parents + transport + HP + internet...etc

His requested requirement for a partner are normal

Love 972 listernner

Anonymous said...

Sounds quite choosy...

daphne chia said...

你们不觉得alan只是提出现今社会的需求吗?怎么会变成quite choosy 和 so troublesome 呢?

Anonymous said...

Alan requirement is acceptable, what he mention I believe he is also a caring and understanding kind of person. He didn't state that he wanted to look for pretty young girl. Eventhough if he just earn $2200, so long he is hardworking and caring husband, all this money can't buy. So what if you'are earning $5ooo and above.

Anonymous said...

I think we should not say words to hurt individual feeling. "Fat is not a sin". In chinese means"FU QI". If you have the same interst as him , you can make friends with him, or to know him further.
At lease, he has the courage to post his photo and that is the true of him. Overall, he is not ugly.

Anonymous said...

thats right!
you feel that he is fat, ugly, 'overly demand'...

but hey, there are always ppl who feel the same way when they look at you loh...

please don treat ppl the way you don like to be treated....

stay happy cheerful and cute!

heee.....

farx2 said...

Dear Friends

Out Look is not important... the most important ... is his heart.. good or bad...

would u prefer some one who very good looking.. but like Monkey?? Lazy... handsome can see but cant eat... for me.. guys must be 'ching lao'

Alan.. every body can reach this age.. and some cant.. ...

cheers

eylin

Anonymous said...

Kate, dun comments Alan like tat lah,u sounds veri veri BAD!!! in fact he juz wanna her partern to share some burden wif him nia mah, wat is called HUSBABD & WIFE, muz tong gan gong ku de.. Dun tell me u wont become old lady 1 day??? 1 finger pointing people 4 finger pointing urself

Wind

Anonymous said...

well, of cse, i m not that handsome. Moreover, inner beauty is more impt than outer beauty. That's impt! REmemember, u choose ppl , ppl also choose you! If u are so pretty enough, you already b a dad or mum of twins! Isn't it? U must have tat criteria b 4 starting to comment someone. U ought 2 respect ppls b 4 ppl will respect u !
Alan Heng

Anonymous said...

oh, someone mentioned i am FAt? Just 4 info;- i already slim down abt 4 kg nowadays...... after much hardwork ; too committed to my current job n regular exercise.. Just to share a little encounter with everyone ;- Recently i attended a social development activity organised by sds. As usual, at the end of the activities, there's contact time whereby we ought 2 exchange contacts. Guess what 1 of the lady even wrote a fake number instead. Well, what i want to comment is this is actually a very childish act. We r all MATURED adults. Hence, we not playing hide n seek game nor guessing game. I did a survey with the rest of the participants. Yap, she did that to the rest of the guy participants as well. If that the case, y she bother to join such a activity when you dun feel like enlarging your own circle! AS i mentioned earlier; if u choose ppl, ppl also choose u. Tat's is the morale of the story! WE joined Social development activities so as to enlarge our own circle. Whether or not , we can be couple; that is secondary / different issue.
Alan

Anonymous said...

hey Alan
cool down man. can understand why you are so angry.. but as a man, you should probably show a more erm... open side of yourself.. which is able to take negetive comments... anyway this is just my personal point of view.. no offence intended..
good luck next week!

Anonymous said...

oh, m i angry? Not Really.. Just disappointed! Terribly disappointed! I am trying to be socialable n friendly. Yet, SHE treat me/us as idiots; ' 3 yrs kids". Not to worry, i won't bother her anymore even if i bounce onto her at sds activity one of tis day as i am currently very, very active in sds. I b attending 4 sds activity next week.. TKs for yr concern anyway.
Alan

Anonymous said...

One more thing to conclude;- Yap, i agreed as a man ; we ought to accept negative comments. Nevertheless, All MAN have their patience Too. WE r not maids nor slave. We got our pride n SOP to follow too. Cheers...

Alan
SCDF
"The life saving force"
"We risked our life to save lives"
"For our country, our nation, our citizens"

Anonymous said...

why torture yourself? why make yourself miserable? maybe you can try to think of it in another way? for eg. many ppl who joins sds, have the intention to find their partners to accompany them through the rest of their lives, just like this program.. so maybe the lady u r talking abt is thinking of it that way? so that is why she used probably the "wrong form" of rejection.. to those whom doesn't interest her.. get what i mean? Some ppl doesn't know how to say no.. so they rather use a different form of hint to let you know that she ain't interested.. so why the big disappointment? look forward and continue to live a meaningful life.. and hopefully this program can help you with that..
cheers!

Anonymous said...

yes i agree that all man have patience... but urs seems abit short fused.. because out of so many comments in here... probably 1 is actually really directed at you.. while the rest of the ppl here are trying to protect u.. giving positive comments.. and if you can see, just 1 is enough to get u worked up.. chill out ya?
good luck..

Anonymous said...

hi everyone;

Well; just a little bio data of myself:-
Some1 mentioned i got high expectations? Well, years ago,;- my criteria of my ideal partner is as follow:- Trustworthy, faithful, non-smoker, occasion drinker, have a stable income, local, below age of 31, shared similar interest (at least 2), Right horoscope, right zodiac sign , good temper, socialable, pretty but not too pretty (pleasant looks)...

It was untill recently that i cut down certain requirements...

Anyway;- Just a tips of the day:- "There is simply no PERFECT human beings in this planet"
"We ought to accept each other good n bad points n compromising each others inorder for friendship to be blossom to a happy n everlasting honey sweetened Marriage"

Anonymous said...

Wow,

Now i understand why you are still single today.

Anonymous said...

yap. Anyway, it's nt easy to find the right one. Nowadays, Divorse rate r on the rise. As such, we ought 2 b very careful in choosing our life partner. Dun married just cos of marriage. Nevertheless, Guys can always goes for vietnam/china bride at the last resort lor...........
Alan

Anonymous said...

Marriage is not A GAME !! It's a longterm LIFE Committment.
Alan

September Kitty BB said...

Hello Alan!
I was listening to 972 when i came across a familiar name, so curiosity wants me to check up the website. Scrolling down the list, finding u familiar, i remembered we took part in a same activity organised by SDS few years back. Maybe u hv forgotten me, becos we don keep in touch already.. Nevertheless, glad u still active with many activities uptill now. Hope you are able to find a perfect match and the gal of your dream one day!! Good Luck & jia you!! :-)

Anonymous said...

ayiooo... Alan, i wonder why so much is said on to define "a happy long term relationship", "character more important than look", "adult should not act childish".
In fact in life whatever thingy happen there is very little explanation to it!

For example, for that girl who give u a fake hp number, i guess u know the reason why she rejected u.

Sometimes u got to face it, without "acceptable look", no one will wana get to know more abt u, let alone to find out how good character u have.
THATS LIFE WAD..
U got to carry on with it, rather than keep reminding urself abt that incident.


Best luck..

poolfans

Anonymous said...

aiyo..yo..alan, the way i see u rebuke already reflect u r such a quick-tempered person..unlike kevin(1st contestant)..he was real cool with all those criticism..much much worse than urs..see how he jus took it in his stride..tats wat i call mature man..whereas u cannot even take a pinch of negative comments...tats not cool man!!!gals make your choice wisely..ru

Anonymous said...

DEAR ALAN,
CAN UNDERSTAND WHY U NEED A GOOD-TEMPER GIRL SIMPLY BECOS U R A BAD TEMPER GUY FROM WAT I SEE..
一山不能藏二虎
JUL..

叶咏梅 said...

who said fat and ugly people cannot have requirements for their life partners. They have the right to choose too!

I've seen short guys having tall girlfriends, guys who have fat girlfriends and otherwise.

Anyone has the right to choose their partners.

Anonymous said...

hi pple out there,
if you are not interested, juz keep ur mouth shut. No need to "Chu Kou Shang Ren"!!!

Alan... may you have your someone special soon... Jia You!

...V

Anonymous said...

Hello Alan,

Fully agreeded with JUL "CAN UNDERSTAND WHY U NEED A GOOD-TEMPER GIRL SIMPLY BECOS U R A BAD TEMPER GUY FROM WAT I SEE..
一山不能藏二虎"

Seems like you got effected by the negetive comments easily. Don't forget 你在明,我们在暗, you don't know who we are and we know who you are, better mind your words, keep cool and be more gentleman.

Hey... ladies.... better think twice if you want to choose this guy ya.

The Three Angels said...

hi ladies n gentlemen, let stop bombarding Alan, must give him the credit to come up and speak of his mind and choice of gal he is looking for. And not forgetting Yong Mei n MC King, dont make their jobs difficult.
Hopefully, let rest in peace and go out with our life and enjoy the programme.

Cheers

Anonymous said...

aa.. Cherish sound like no interest on Alan.. Any 1 agree ??

Anonymous said...

i agree with yong mei, she like mc king leh...

Anonymous said...

yes..... agreeded with you, anonymous

Nicole Hah said...

其實每個人有不同的看法﹐為什麼要這樣去攻擊人家呢﹖難道胖﹑不美/不帥就沒資格談戀愛﹑結婚嗎﹖

因為不是你們被人家指指點點啊﹐你們當然就不會生氣啦﹗反過來如果被講的人是你們﹐你們也會生氣啊﹗

留一點口德吧﹗

Anonymous said...

I think Alan should speak up more rather than remain silent most of the time. Since he is the 'nan zhu jiao' he should show his sincerity. I suggest he do some preparation in asking question. Most of the time is MC king or Yong Mei help to ask question. I can sense that Cherish is not so comfortable with Alan. If I'll to judge I'll give Alan 3/10 and cherish 6/10. You don't expect the girl to speak more when Alan remain so...... quite. I hope he can speak more....or else it will be quite boring. Moreover both DJ put in so much effort to hold this programe.
Alan you can shine only if you belive in yourself. Let us hear your voice....
I hope that the participant can take time off so that he/she can speak more comfortable.

from:care

xiang fa said...

Alan,

Alan, we give you the spiritual support and we expect you to be more active on talking, just treat it as normal friend chit chat, tomorrow jia you!

xiang fa said...

HI Yong Mei,

please help Alan as much as you can, he is a bit shy. M c won't be around tomorow, i am sure tomorrow Alan can perform better than this afternoon without "rival"

Anonymous said...

Alan,
Really hope you can take charge , don't let Yong Mei down.
All the best tomr.

from: cheers

Anonymous said...

You have to be more brave, i think you are able to do that...

Anonymous said...

Halo everi1,

RELAC lah!!!

Anonymous said...

Alan.. you have so much to say here in the blog abt this and that... why all the sudden silence in the show?? seriously.. you have given yourself a very negetive image of yourself... our previous contestants have all received negetive comments... but do you see them coming out and trying to bombard the person who gave you that negetive comment? I feel that if there is a girl which you are interested in, the girl might have a hard time... because she cannot say anything bad abt you.. please.. wake up and face the world.. be the man that you say you are...

修平 said...

Alan, jia you hor...... dont disappoint those ppl who supported you despite some set-back earlier.

so be yourself and dont let those comments affected you.

if you think you can.... YOU CAN...

Good Luck......

Anonymous said...

Oh, I'm a divorcees with 2 kids, can I join? Want to join but dare not, will anybody say buy 1 get 2 free that kind of hurting remarks? Do I qualify to join? Can you arrange some programmes for divorcees with kids who still want to find lifetime partner?

Anonymous said...

Alan,
u always say u choose ppl,ppl also choose u,then dun be so fussy urself.Pot calling the kettle black,wahaha.Anyway tat lady totally nt interested in u.If u are so active in ur sds programs,still cant find partner,i tink u really got big problem lor.
Jade

Anonymous said...

Alan,

Jia you!!! be optimistic and hope you will find your miss right. There are always positive and negative opinions, just follow your feeling, it can't be wrong.

Hope you are not affected by those unreasonable comments.

Janine

Anonymous said...

Hi Alan Heng,

Jia You!!!

Gwee

Anonymous said...

hi everyone;-
Ok. Fine with all the negative comments. I should keep mouth shut abt the incd if not you ppl will comment that i can't get over it. ! Wat enough is enough! Tks.
Alan Heng

Anonymous said...

hi.
I wld like thanks wendy 4 her precious time chatting wif us tis a'nn depite her tight working schedule in shipping industry. Nice chatting with u anyway. If there's a chance...; i will by all means teach her more abt bowling;- the correct throwing techniques, ankle of measurement, standing posture/position etc. If d bowling ball is too heavy for her, not 2 worri, i will hold it specially 4 her n strike it! Hope my chat with d last but not least contestant; Eileen would be a interesting one too. Ok, time for me to pen off now n jotting down d questions for eileen tommorrow. .." tml w b better"..
TKs to xiang fa for yr spiritual support too. Tks bro.! GOD Bless ....
Alan Heng

Anonymous said...

oh b 4 i end here. i would like to thanks "sept kitten b b" 4 remembering me as well.. Sori 4 not keeping in touch with you nowadays as i m very busy datings nowadays. Anyway, i dun recalled which one was u either. Tks anyway. God Bless. "tml w b better"
Alan Heng

Anonymous said...

Alan,

Initially i tot u quite let ppl tong qing de, be now i saw ur last comment, i reali DA DIE YAN JIN, sort of dispointing on U, haiz sad...

Wind

Anonymous said...

U talk like u are an expert in bowling. Are u really so good? Do u take part in competition before?

Anonymous said...

Are un sure u can dance with sucha round body size?

Anonymous said...

Think this guy really has serious problem. So rude and ungracious. Cant accept any negative comments? Then dont take part in this kind of events or activities.

Anonymous said...

i JUST SIMPLY DUN UNDERSTAND, WHY ALAN LIKE TO ASK SCORES FOR BOWLING ???
MUST BE VERY EXPERT IN BOWLING !!!

xiang fa said...

to all anonymous,

please give Alan a break, he is not a bad guy and slowly improving now.
moreover, he is almost there already, i can sense that he will go for the 3rd contestant and she will accept him, happy ending.

xiang fa said...

Hi ! Yong mei / M C King

well done, Keep it up for the next one.

Anonymous said...

Alan,
U big fat pig,want women to pay for everything during dating,not a gentleman at all. If that's the case,u might as well go be a gigglo then women can support u,izzit tat better?haha.But i dun tink ur looks qualify to be a gigglo leh,opps,wahaha.

Anonymous said...

Hello Alan,
Be a man. Whatever people comments, don't react so impulsely. Remain calm. let hear what people comment. The more you try to explin the worse it going to be. Why? Because you can't accept comment and advise.
You don't sound positive. Augustina has done her preparation. Can see her sincerity. When she ask you how many sibling do you have, your answer is quite negative. I'm quite disappointed. I don't mean to hurt you. I hope you can think before you speak. Augustina is a good choice. You are luck, girl like her is hard to find. At least she don't go for look.
Good luck.

Anonymous said...

Alan,

I strongly feel tat wat ppl comments will make u imporve better personality oso improve communication skill as well, try to be humble, sure will make u hv better tml,JIA YOU cheers ^_^

Wind

xiang fa said...

Alan,

please stay calm for the nasty comment about you, just treat it as a tolerance test. Ms. Augustina is a nice and understanding girl at least judge from her way of talk. please don't let her down, wish you all the best.

September Kitty BB said...

Hi Alan,
Thanks for replying on my comments. :-) ... actually i donno why ppls are "bombarding" you.. But after listening to the show today, i was thinking your choice would be Eileen.
If you can recalled, few years back, we met in an activity organized by SDS, it was held in a restaurant at China Square (If not wrong, its a Thai restaurant).. Do you remembered a gal who was thin with long hair? Sorry, i don wan to mention my name here.. But it was good you go all the way to find a true love and never give up.. Tat's all i wan to say.. good luck to you!! You can leave msg to me at my blog ..
Take care, Alan :)

September Kitty BB said...

Ohh... a big sorry about my typing error. I was trying to mention Miss Augustina, NOT Eileen. Sorry about that!

Michelle said...

Hi,

Personally feel that Augustina is a nice gal too friendly n understanding. Alan seem a bit out of place n the way he response is v not gentleman. Gal will feel hurt and that's why Augustina feel that Alan already choose Wendy in heart n no more question for her. Not easy to be open in public but since decide to be in the prog then hv to be more gentleman lor. My bf is also v stingy type but even we go out together he also nv ask me to pay for our meal or even my own meal. So i think that is guy duty to take care of the expenses then maybe after some time when really go steady maybe both party can really talk about the expenses lor. At least gal will feel comfortable to be with u. Not becos want to spend yr money but gal will feel yr sincerity that she is worth for u to spend on her.

Not easy to find someone share the same interest. If u really find someone then u may find that she is just like yr friend but not gf cos u sure will go bowling with yr friend n then both of u will not hv much time for "er ren shi jie" !

Well done Augustina !!! Big applause for u !!!

Michelle

Bel said...

Alan, Sincerely, i would like to drop a few comments for you but not trying to offence you. You are not gentlemen and lack of generosity.The truth is, if i want to to find a husband, i will "definitely" not look for your type. Bel

Anonymous said...

Alan, ignore the negative comments n choose the gal that u think suit u best. All the best.

Moon

poolfans said...

yalor...
i feel the same...
Alan should be more cautious in the way he chooses to answer.

Wad the problem with repeating AGAIN even if you already said it last friday!!!!

Quite PISSED OFF with him... He dare to give this answer as "Didnt u listen to last friday programme, i did make my intro already" He said it to ALL 3 ladies!!!!!
HUH!!!!

Alan, it is ok if u not look handsome.. BUT.. please show that u r a GENTLEMAN!

Anonymous said...

Alan, u must have headache now. It's really difficult for u 2 choose.1st lady-no feeling at all. 2nd lady-cause 70+kg.3rd lady-sound good but from Brunai & keep pushing herself to u.Anyway, good luck 2 u.

Anonymous said...

hey alan... from the way you answer questions ah... is it any wonder why so many activities in SDS and you still can't find one?
please lah!! just look at the number of negetive remarks you have here... you are 30... yet talk like a young boy... still underaged loh.. you gotta have a major overhaul.. looks aside as that isn't the issue.. its your character that is really irritating.. you gotta go reflect on yourself...
haiz...

Anonymous said...

hi,

Im Augustina Eylina... From Brunei..

First..i would like to THANKS all peoples out there who give a comment.. may i give u some of my opinions..

I very glad that yong mei give me this changes to take part.

i not pushing my self to anything.. i understand that "sing fu" cannot "mean chiang..."

i more to "sui herr" type. i would try to do my best for some one i like/love or even a friends.

Friends..

Below is Wrote by Alan Heng

"WE joined Social development activities so as to enlarge our own circle. Whether or not , we can be couple; that is secondary / different issue."

I AGREE with him....

(2)
i work as Customer Service and
i have seen alot diffrent type of ppl. When they are angry..

as wat i feel .. Alan,he is not rude but he is shy n not good talker.
he not like MC .. "kou hua hua".. type.
(just joking.. sorry MC).

is not wrong if he have some temper.. who do not have temper when they are angry??

i can feel that he trying to be socialable n friendly...

u know why i feel that he choose Wendy?? read below...

"hi.
I wld like thanks wendy 4 her precious time chatting wif us tis a'nn depite her tight working schedule in shipping industry. Nice chatting with u anyway. If there's a chance...; i will by all means teach her more abt bowling;- the correct throwing techniques, ankle of measurement, standing posture/position etc. If d bowling ball is too heavy for her, not 2 worri, i will hold it specially 4 her n strike it! Hope my chat with d last but not least contestant; Eileen would be a interesting one too. Ok, time for me to pen off now n jotting down d questions for eileen tommorrow. .." tml w b better"..
TKs to xiang fa for yr spiritual support too. Tks bro.! GOD Bless ...."
Alan Heng

U C???.. i think this is really gentleman. he try his best already.

for Alan.. size is not a matter. from his messages.. i can feel that he more confortable with wendy and the feeling is come.. hahahaha...

and now.. i feel like third party.. hahahah... Wendy.. i not try to "puo hai" u and alan. but .. i just try my best.. Good luck to you.

Friends..

he have prepare a question.. but when i told im not a local .. i can feel he shock and no clue lio.. hahah.. did u know.. when u shocked.. everything goes blank in our mind.. hahahah.. hahah

i would "Chu fu" him if he choose wendy and hope to be her friends too. "hehehe...


Yong Mei.. if i not be choose by him.. can i join again???

sorry for the troubles... hahah

anyone out there whant to know me?? guys and gals are Welcome... hahahahaha....hahah...

Bless you..with Love...

Augustina Eylina

poolfans said...

Alan really not into Sweet talking.. But he needs to be much more sensitive.

Hi Augustina Eylina...
The only reason if Alan didnt chose u is u r not local... Not singaporean is a BIG problem, esp if going into Relationship.. Anyway, just be more confident! Dun be so negative... Have a feeling that Alan will chose u de... =)

Can feel that you getting lonely/bored in SG le...
U need friendS wor...
My email, poolfans@hotmail.com...

Nicole Hah said...

Augustina, i like your performance yesterday! you are very "da fang".

jia you!

Michelle said...

Hi all,

What's the problem Augustina is not a local? If they really love each other nothing is impossible. My bf is Singaporean and myself is Malaysian but we still be together ma. Nothing is impossible.

All the best to u, Augustina !!! Jia You !!!

Anonymous said...

HE IS A BORING,UNGENTLEMAN,IRRITATING,FAT AND UGLY GUY.WHICH GAL CHOOSE HIM REALLY SWAY!!!

xiang fa said...

Hi ! Augustina

Alan surely has a hard time now. as a onlooker i place the bet on you to win. My wife was a foreigner before but we still can be together for almost twenty years. so being not a local i don't think is a problem unless Alan........, any way you stand a equal chance. So be optimistic

i am sure Yong Mei will allow you to be a participant, let you chose your right one. wish you all the best

Joe said...

To all the contestants, Don't be disappointed if Alan did not choose either one of you. You have to feel glad and happy about it.I believe that you ladies will find someone much more better than him which is more gentleman and da fang.Most important must be patience and xin shiong guan da. Wish you all the best. Joe

Anonymous said...

Alan, Can't remember how many girlfriends you said you had.When yong mei asked you why broke off with them,its whose problems. You immediately answered of course their faults.What a man are you? Looked at all the comments for you.Are you really that good? Can't stand the way ytalk. Be humble and don't be a xiao nan ren.

Anonymous said...

Sorry, I just has a few comments from a man point of view,
Hi Ms Augustine,
Please stop engaging in fanciful daydreaming and please get real. Allow me to elaborate. I understand that you like man who is chunky but that is physical, Had you seriously considered his EQ and his social etiquette? Look is the first impression but how a person behaviour and his character do affect if you will to be with that person. Identify the meaning of "kou hua hua" to to speaking with thoughtfulness. I am so surprise that you can read between the lines what Mr Alan had wroten in YM's blog and Defensed him utterly. Please don't and do it with inner reservation we need to take some time to know a person. My hypothesis is you are someone who have great confident on your own look but I would like to highlight that whether you are a beauty or not is not self proclaimed... in your case more up to Mr Alan whether he see you as one. Please don't be offended i don't mean to insult in the first place. Continue to be yourself and improve.

Mr Alan,
I think civil service has KPI on achieving a minimum training target of 100 hours per staff per year right? I am sure your superior will not mind you going on courses other that the statutory training/enrichment programs especially there is a need on improving his officer's interaction and social etiquette qualities after all i presume SCDF officers do outreach to Community right? If you join this program with a photo taken in your uniform for sure you do attract the attention of "some" girls but that is beside the point, you are in fact representing SCDF. I see that you are proud of your job and we do respect your job. On the negative comments made by others, I rest my case. I know you can't please everybody but no harm doing some self reflection and be a better man.
Thanks Ms YongMei for the program and keep up the good work.

poolfans said...

i mean between Wendy and Augustine, a local and a foreigner, a wiser chioce will be to go for local.

But Augustine impressed herself in the show, thus Alan should not have too hard a chioce...

May all Anonymous leave behind a nick name in the blog...

Anonymous said...

hi,.. Nicole Hah (i have added you lio).. Xiang Fa... Joe..Michelle and the rest ...

Really Thanks for all of you...and Yong mei .. if not her Blog.. i may not know u all... i really glad to have u all as a blog friends.. i think.. infuture.. yong mei need to have forum for us hahahahaaaaa....

Belove Friends..

i really touch with all of your.. support and comments..

anyway, i really dont know what is the answer.. depents on him and yong mei lor...and i dont know what would yong mei plan ...if go "Kala OK".. oso im ok wan.. event i do not sing.. i enjoy listen.. specially i very "chi tai" to c yong mei sing .. hahahahaaaa... i like kara OK.. hahahaa

OK.. i would like to reply this gentelman messages...

Hi,, guy out there.. remember.. Gals and Guys are diffrent planet.. your view and ours are totally diffrents.. anyway.. i would try my best.. on your comments.. "Kam Shia"


he wrote...

"Please stop engaging in fanciful daydreaming and please get real."

My reply... "Thanks .. i would."

He wrote..

"Allow me to elaborate. I understand that you like man who is chunky but that is physical, Had you seriously considered his EQ and his social etiquette?"

My Answ.: " yes i like man who chunky. but how do u know his EQ and etiquette... good or bad?? i really dont know.. but i did not judge and make any conclusions on him.. i just feel (womens feeling 60% accurate) hahahahah .. i not event meet him n just talk not more then 20mnt.. if you can judge some one from hearing one side and just read the comment..u really genius.."

He Wrote...

"Look is the first impression but how a person behaviour and his character do affect if you will to be with that person."

My Answ. i know "REN PU KHE MAU XIANG" .. but your sounds like you know him very well huh?? they are many way for first impression. do you need examples???


He wrote ;

"Identify the meaning of "kou hua hua" to to speaking with thoughtfulness."

"is not suprise.. Kou hua hua for same ladys ..is talk sweet word and do others things ..and can means by just said that guy never tell the true.. as wat yong mei say.. half half can trust... did u know.. some guys talk alot when they out wif friends.. but when at home.. they very quite.. and some they are quite .. but humorous... ?? i have that types of friends.. "

He Wrote:

"I am so surprise that you can read between the lines what Mr Alan had wroten in YM's blog and Defensed him utterly. Please don't and do it with inner reservation we need to take some time to know a person."

My ans:
Guys.. if you like or intrested wif some one... what do you would respond?? sure u very kang cheong and reply her quickly rite?? and c y he not write me and the others one ?? i do not Defensed him utterly... i just feel and guess like others friends do.. izit wrong??

He Wrote:

"My hypothesis is you are someone who have great confident on your own look but I would like to highlight that whether you are a beauty or not is not self proclaimed..."

My ans:
Yes .. everyone need to have great confident on her self.. if not.. then "jia lat" lio.. how to success... but i do not said i Pretty or what ever.. is yong mei and MC imaginations only.. anyway.. im not bad.. hahah.. as soon as i got a pair of eyes.. nose.. and exct..

He Wrote:

"in your case more up to Mr Alan whether he see you as one."

my ans: YES .. i agreed..


Finally..

"Please don't be offended i don't mean to insult in the first place. Continue to be yourself and improve."


my ans: Its Ok.. that is your view and the way of your thinking.. i would not change your way of thinking.. and i would improve.... YOU TOO..

hi, u guys.. i think you can join the Program in channel 8
" YOU HUA ZE SHUOA " ....

hahahha.. Thanks Thanks ...many many Thanks ar...

Cheers..

Augustina

PS: Im holding a PR here..

poolfans said...

huh.. come SG only "6" moonths can become PR liao????

Anonymous said...

Augustina, u really 'luo shuo'.
Alan, be careful, if u choose her-???- 'hen nan shuai diao'.

xiang fa said...

Hi! Augustina

You can get PR after coming here for only 6 months, you must be high educated and hold a very high post here. my Hat off for you.

Anonymous said...

Augustina,
u sounds SUX here, dun show off plz, so hao lian 4wat? if u smart enuff jiu dun nid attend tis program, dun ever come S'pore diao Singaporean lah, talk so much, act SMART.....

Wind

Anonymous said...

Wind,

Then how u feel abt next wk contestant,Xue Ling? Just want to know yr opinions. Thanks.

Maggie

Anonymous said...

Maggie,

Ar my point of view XueLing at e moment she is quite humble

Anonymous said...

wah....

ani-foreigner leh...

smell big (J)

me support singapore choose singapore.

Anonymous said...

Do you know Alan's choose WHICH gal ?? Coz I missed today programme. Thks.

JW

Anonymous said...

Hi

She choose ccontestants no.2 Wendy. Hope that they can work out.

Xinyi

xiang fa said...

i drop my spectacle after Alan made his decision. Anyway Congratulation to Wendy, and to Augustina please don't feel bad。you lost something, you will gain something back from other way. looking forward to hear your voice on air again.

Anonymous said...

Congratz to Alan, u choosen Wendy, quite matching jia You hope to hear GOOD NEWS from 2... teasure ur beloved 1...

Wind

Anonymous said...

hi : I was busy earlier; hence didn't reply to Ms Augustina comments. Not b'cos i m nt interested. I m alway a fair person!
Alan Heng

Anonymous said...

Hi Alan,have u meet up with the other 3 gals in a gathering or dinners?

Joe

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